because this is EXHAUSTING.
99+ likes and messages, and this is the pinnacle.
I'm only partly amused, otherwise I'm honestly deeply sad. I know "block and delete" move on, yada yada, but at a certain point like...I'm genuinely emotionally and spiritually drained by this. I don't get asked out very often in the real world, and online I keep getting these dudes, along with the lazy let's-get-drinks-or-coffee-come-to-my-place LVM.
It really, really sucks.
It's just terrifying how common it is for men to talk to women like this. So much pornsick coomerism that they can't even relate to a woman on a human level.
Imagine thinking it's normal and okay to talk about strap-on penises with a woman you've never met. Sadly, that line probably works on pickmes who rush to assure him that no, she's not that kind of girl but she has an open mind if he likes to experiment...?
Online dating is the worst but yes, it can be very hard to meet people after you're out of college/grad school and leaving it up to chance is maddening. I hope you meet someone amazing soon ❤️
Give them enough rope and they'll hang themselves.
The first one: ew
Yep this, it’s a drainer just blocking and deleting
Yeah, this is why I don't even bother. Well, *one* of the reasons.