When men ask you “what you bring to the table”, remember THIS about them

Exactly right!

this same guy also said, “children are like pets“

a married ex-cop

do with this info what you will 😂

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First off, the view is great; I agree 😂

I've seen men saying that nonsense too. It's a flipping joke. I remember watching this Australian show on people who got a chance to reconnect with exes and this lady wanted to reconnect with her ex who ate off paper plates and plastic cutlery, used plastic cups and had moving boxes that he used as tables. His apartment was an absolute tip and when she was shocked that 7 years on, he was still living like that, he completely defended it saying that it was easier to just throw away plastic things than to wash proper plates, proper cutlery and glasses. Imagine being that lazy?!

Like you said, men think that any thing proper is feminine/gay and therefore weak and something they should run from. It's such warped thinking.

That Dutch guy had good taste and truly was super rare because the average guy is definitely not like that.

Men be like: Imagine not hearing about a dishwasher. 🙃

Exactly 😂😂

You know, I didn't even think about it like that, but that's probably what it was. He thought he hadn't abused me so that was enough. God whhhyyyyy.. uuuuggh

Yuck, yuck and yuck. I don’t know which is worse - men not really knowing how they come across to women or men who pretend to not know. Either way, they all need to go in the 🗑️ .

What a creep. Like you said, he really thought being nice was all it took? Men are truly delusional.

My ex was like this and it was so annoying to hear. "I am a simple man" means you don't give a shit about yourself aka: (boxers and shirts with holes cuz you work remote and no one sees you on camera unless necessary and then the "nice" shirts come out so you know dressing well is a must but refuse to do so for YOURSELF, not cleaning the bedsheets until it forms a nice yellow stain because apparently, showing 1x a week is fine for a balding, fat, sweaty at the drop of exercise guy, not going to the barber last minute for the greasy, long, stringy hair that you just put head and shoulders on maybe 1x a week if you don't go outside) or respect to have a clean, tidy home, or hobbies that aren't video games, porn, sports, etc. Ladies, run from these men. Seriously what the fuck is with men who are "DertY PiGs" and are okay with it. Betting my lifesavings that all the men who are like this need therapy. Like it's borderline mentally ill. Also fuck the women who support their bitch ass sons like this. I never saw my ex buy his own boxers or bed sheets ever. His mom thought he was 5 and always visited almost every week to drop off food and clothing because he couldn't bother. Grandma literally thought her son was going to get married till I left lmao.

I almost dated a guy like this and I'm so glad I didn't. His mom also spoiled the shit out of him and raises his daughter for him. I pitied him at the time. Now that im a little older I realize that - he absolutely wants pity. Pity gets him pussy, pays his bills, free childcare, feeds him, and gives him a million chances. Funny enough, he is nearing thirty and that shit is definitely not cute in his big age and receding hairline now. SadBoi gamers disgust me because they are more entitled than actually depressed.(dopamine fried) and entitled people are bullies.(abusers) I think their filth is the embodiment of entitlement. "My trash and mess, is YOUR responsibility, slave. :)"

There's a couple of things he said to me in the past that still pop up in my mind every now and then, that were such huge fucking red flags that completely went over my head. Like 30yr old man who hangs out around highschool parking lots - type of red flags. 🤢

We sure are!