Vindictive LVM Strikes Again

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So here's my update:

So before the following lesson, he texted me: "I feel like grabbing pie together" (which is not even an invitation, pure entitlement).

I did not answer, and when he stood queuing down the hallway in the cafeteria and I walked by, he saw me, and I kept on walking, so he reached out to grab me with his hand but couldn't (cos he's short and I'm a fast walker).

Then when he saw me in class he started calling me (literally shouting my name like 5 times) and then went over to where I was sitting (others were sitting there hearing everything) and was like:

"Are you ignoring me? Did I do something to upset you?" I was like, no.

Then he said:" Good! Cos I thought you were ignoring me! And if I did something that made you angry then im sorry!" (still being all shouty infront of everyone, his tone is completely beggy and shouty. Felt totally embarrassing).

Then texted me some more, to which I ignored.

Which leads me to the next lesson we had the other day.

He came over to me, I said hi nicely. He sat next to me, and saying he felt I was ignoring him and that he wasn’t feeling good about it, and I said I said hi. He said he wanted to delete everything that he might had done two weeks prior to that and that he wanted to start over and be my friend (again being extremely overdramatic).

I was so threatened by his mansplaining and his manner of chasing me again and forcing his physical presence over me that I was like "it feels abit disturbing to me that you're coming on to me like that"

And then he asked if he had done something two weeks prior, to which I said no (I can't say that he's creepy and unpleasant, he is already quite threatening and I'm shaking inside). Then he asked why I wasn’t speaking to him, to which I said I'm busy and I wanted to concentrate on the lesson. Then he said that I used to be friendly with him and that he also wanted to study but that he wanted out to hang out at other times, to which I said I was busy.

Then he said that I'm not okay and that I couldn't end the friendship like that and that I should think very carefully about what I'm doing and feel guilty cos "ending a friendship by ignoring a person is a very ugly deed and" that reflects on a terrible person, etc., and that I should think about it again, blah blah blah.

By the way, I have only known him for about a year during which I haven't seen him at all for 3 months during the summer vacation.

then I said: "I don't owe you anything", again, my tone remained calm as opposed to his, despite kinda shaking inside.

Then he repeated my statement and again ranted: "it's an ugly thing to do".

Ha, I feel great for dealing with it, though his lashing out at me kinda scared me.

To me, he feels awful and toxic for being dramatic and ignoring my feelings. I know that if were alone in the room I'd been agreeable cos I'd be scared. But yeah, just because I used to be friendly to him, it doesn't mean that I'll forever be able to supply him with my attention and attention. And he just seems so entitled