Update to work scrote: he had a GF and we told her

I just need to get this off my chest and think you would love how this is ending. Over the past few months I've posted about this dude that works near my job. We would bump into each other and occasionally had to work together to resolve business issues

Physically he was attractive and I developed a crush on him, which I got under control thanks to FDS. He seemed to really like me and would bend over backwards, did me all these favors, and seemed to really try to impress me. My coworkers started noticing the "dramatic improvement" and "no issues" since I started handling the matters with him. One time my coworker noticed him flirting with me and how nervous and awkward he was, and he ended up walking away laughing to himself.

I pulled back and tried keeping my distance from him, but he started looking for me. He'd come in to see me, started bringing me snacks and coffee, and then would ask my coworkers where I was so he could see me. I kept it professional but he would always get flirty .... and then started saying I should come see him in his office and would make comments after I'd talk to him about work that "ill do anything for you, you can come yell at me, you can even call me your bitch and I'll come and do whatever you ask. I like being given a hard time."

This happened at his workplace and I never stepped foot into his office. I made a confused face and walked away but I heard him giggling. Weird and lv!

Then he I guess was coming into work looking for me but I'd been off for a few days. My coworkers found this amusing as they noticed he liked me and one of them said something to him. He was taken aback then and angrily told her that he has a girlfriend. Apparently she was in the store, and he had stayed far away from her so that all my coworkers had no idea they were together. Well then she came up to meet him and my coworker said loudly in front of her that she had no idea he had a gf and acted all excited to meet her saying "I can't believe I've never seen you before! We all love him and he's over here all the time looking for (my name) and hes always making her laugh and get all nervous! He comes over all the time to see her!"

Apparently she said coldly "really?" And glared at him and they left. He tried looking at my coworker like she was crazy.

Anyways, my coworkers then said after that they haven't seen him other than her giving a ride to work. And since then, he hasn't been at work. It's been a few weeks.

Another coworker mentioned him to me the other day, she actually thought he was my boyfriend and was confused because he'd always come in and would her for me. When I told her what happened she was shocked.

I setup arrangements with my boss to have another coworker handle things with him, but he hasn't been around. So there's another dude now that's been handling business with me and he told me that they're having him cover and he's in the process of being promoted to that position.

Lesson here: my gut instinct was right about him from the start. "His" apartment he "didn't renew the lease on" was hers, she kicked him out of. "His" car that was "stolen" was actually her car the entire time. The "friend" he stayed with was a sidepiece he was using because he was trying to crawl back to the girlfriend. Thank God she walked into my workplace and thank God my coworker loudly made her aware of what had been happening. Reality was he was trying to line me up as an option to eventually use.

So I'm assuming he's now homeless, car less, and was fired/quitting his job. I know he was seeking a pickme to feed and house him and be his taxi.

I genuinely feel awful for her and really hope she did leave him. I can't imagine how devastating I'd be to do all that for a man and then find out how he led on another woman for months and asked her to see him after hours alone in his office! Heck even the way he looked at me and all the flirty things he'd been saying were so inappropriate and disrespectful it made me feel sick when my coworkers told me.

I just needed to get all this off my chest.