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I’ve been wanting to make a post on this for a while now. I think it’s a good time with the posts we’ve had about “wife guys” and stuff like that. without giving too much information about me away, I work in an industry that has to do with health and wellness - think like physio, chiropractor, massage therapists etc.
so with my job I’m always one on one with my clients. some of these people I’ve been seeing for a long time and of course we small talk and some of them that I’ve been seeing for awhile share so much about their lives!
to start out with the good, I find lots of young women are really putting men in their place! Like they have zero fucks to give and idk if they follow fds but some of the stuff they talk about really line up with us and it’s so good to see.
now, I also hear so many women complaining about their lv husbands and it’s sad to hear. I’ve met many who are forever gfs as well and tell me that they want to get married but the bf or sometimes fiancé gives so many reasons not to. lots of older women always want to know if I’m married and when I say no, they always tell me “good! It’s not that great” which is sad but I think it shows that we, throughout generations know that men aren't always the best
Now let’s get to the men! the wife guy posts really got me thinking about these guys. I have clients who are married. These husbands are absolutely shameless first of all, I’m there to help them with things like chronic pain, injuries, limited range of motion etc.
apparently they think this is when you ask a woman out on a date. Usually for the first few appointments they mention they’re married but once they get comfortable they will ask me out.
Which is so unprofessional and I’d never do that. also these guys should be grateful they have a woman who wants them. As these men are ROUND SHAPED and about 15-20 years older than me. they may also tell me how young I look 🤢
but I always just feel bad for the women that they are married to.
it’s honestly like they can’t help themselves and in their heads they think someone like me would actually be interested. Some even tell me negative things about their wives , because god forbid she ages.
that’s their complaint. She’s old and he wants someone young now.
its gross.
but I think this just goes to show when you’re dating that it’s so important to follow fds. Hopefully you’ll find someone not like these lv scrotes
My mom sometimes works in the fitting room at Old Navy. She told me there was a couple in there and the husband was trying on clothes. He kept asking my mom how they looked and was flirting with her right in front of his wife. My mom was having none of it so she asks the wife if he always acts like this and the wife said yes. I don't know why she is still married to him.
I would whip out my phone and ask if he wanted to repeat himself for my supervisor. Then immediately leave to go get another therapist. (He will be freaking out at this point) If no other therapists are available, I would stand outside the door and tell him to reschedule with someone else as I will no longer be treating him, ever. (A medical facility will most likely back you up) I would NOT accept an apology!!! I’ve heard too many men say they do what they want and ask for forgiveness later. Never argue or explain; men KNOW what they did. We need to hold men accountable each and EVERY time. If we “forgive” ,no matter how reluctantly, they just give phony apologies. Also, can you have a staff meeting to ask for guidance on handling this behavior? It might help to have some procedure in place to protect staff.
Ugh, that's so gross and so LV. I'm sorry you sometimes have to be on the receiving end of that.
(I have to admit I cackled at ROUND SHAPED !)
I work in construction. I could write a book.
I’m not surprised. So many married men hit on me in the past and they continue to do so. It’s gross … I would record them and send recordings to their wives but that might be illegal … I’m sure their wives know but they don’t care honestly. Idk how these women accept this BS. If only every scrotes gf or wife just does the exact same thing to him. Start flirting with other men front of him, ask men out on dates, cheat and lie. An Eye for an eye … I personally wouldn’t but someone needs to put these men in their place and there has to be consequences.
Interesting info here, enjoyed your post! Have you also experienced normal/respectful male clients or is it just mostly LV?
Idk how the wives tolerate that stuff. Do the husbands say everything in their wives presence?