There's a reason men don't trust other men around their wives and daughters. Men know they suck. There is no such thing as a high value male, only temporarily useful males who can provide money and security. We expect men to take dangerous jobs because risking their lives is what they are most good for. Even scientists know that males of a species are expendable.
All men are abusers until proven otherwise. This is backed by statistics. Most of the time, lying to men is 100% justified. When women get raped and murdered, it's usually because they made the mistake of trusting a man they believed was high value. "Good" men don't exist.
Women hate it when men cheat because it's a betrayal of their relationship. Men hate when women cheat because she is with another man, and men know how disgusting they are.
If you think you are dating "one of the good ones" just remember that he will leave you as soon as you get sick and wouldn't trust other men around you because he knows how depraved men are.
Just to pile on: its disturbing how many men are caught with children. Coaches, pastors, teachers. And how many havent been caught or would do it if they thought they could get away with it?
I do fear that most men truly are predators.