The tragedy of childless men /s

This article is preposterous. Once men hit 40, they’re in their sexual prime and will only become MORE attractive to women until their death!! My uncle’s friend’s brother is 55, bald, and fat (got a job AND a car!!) and every time he leaves the house there’s a gathering of hundreds of professional models in their early twenties who engage in hand-to-hand combat so that the last one standing has a chance to have coffee with him!

The idea that any man over 40 doesn't have an endless supply of women lining up to have his babies is just ridiculous. Nice try!!

*Because this is the internet and I have to say it, this was sarcasm.

This man fostered many children:

people.com

For PEOPLE's new story series My Extraordinary Family, North Carolina man Peter Mutabazi opens up about his experience fostering 34 children, adopting one and hoping to adopt more

This man adopted a bunch of children:

globalnews.ca

"They deserve to be raised as siblings, and that was my fight," Lamont Thomas, a father of 12, said.

This man fosters terminally ill children:

scoop.upworthy.com

Bzeek is a single foster father to the very sickest children in Los Angeles County’s sprawling foster care system.

Robert Nurden could adopt and care for children if he truely wanted to. But alas, LVM are selfish jerks who only think of themselves.

Boo-fucking-hoo.

These guys were — by their own admission — passive when it came to having kids. They thought time would stand still for them and they could have kids whenever they felt like it. HAAAAAA!

This is Darwinism at its finest. These guys didn't go after what they wanted in life so they missed out. The gene pool has been spared.

I stopped reading at they 'feel a deep anger'. Of course it's anger that they choose to feel and of course they don'tbother directing that at themselves. Sick of men's feelings leaking into everything and being given such gravity. Learn to introspect like the rest of us were forced to (way too early)!

Does anyone else find this whole "Have children so you'll have someone to care for you when you are old" thing extremely entitled?

So that child is not just brought into the world without having a choice about it, it also gets saddled with an automatic lifelong duty to be a free caretaker for the parents he/she didn't choose. Doesn't matter if your parents were abusive, your childhood wasn't great, you have your own children and life to take care off, you are completely estranged from your parents, your own mental and physically health makes it impossible to care for another person... you are still basically satan in today's society if you refuse to be your parents' caretaker when they get old.

And I say this as someone who was a caretaker for my terminally ill father whom I loved very much and who doesn't regret that choice (and it WAS a choice). But it was still the most exhausting, traumatizing time of my life so far and demanding and expecting this from your children no matter what is entitled, cruel and selfish.

But that's men for you. They don't only feel like they have a right to a wife who is their free bangmaid as long as the she lives without expecting anything in return, they also feel like they have a right to a daughter who will take over those duties as free nurse when the wife-appliance is finally broken.

Hahahahahahahaha. I do so love sad scrote stories.

Cry me a river. Women never assume that having children will “just happen.” We know there’s a biological clock and we act to create the family we want to the best of our abilities. Meanwhile men sit around twiddling their thumbs and saying they’re “not sure” if they want kids when they’re 45 and then 60 rolls around and it starts dawning on them that they’ll never have children. Shocking!

“If I’m honest, even when I was in my 50s I believed that it might happen for me. But in real life, the Mick Jagger and Jon Snow-age fathers are actually very rare – and in any case, it’s medically not wise, as regards sperm quality.”

Nothing even about being an elderly father to a grade school kid. They really just wanna drop off a clone before departing this earth, fuck them kids😂😂. These delusional scrotes better start focusing on their on biological clocks instead of being up our asses!

And men want a woman so that she can take over where his mommy has left off. We need to stop having children with men. Single life or sperm bank, at least those men have no visitation rights.

My dad is kind of like this. He thinks that people should have children so that the parents will have someone to care for them when they get older.

The part where he admits that as a young man he never put any thought into whether or not he wanted kids because he assumed it would "just happen". Ask any woman if she wants kids, and you'll get a confident yes, no, or maybe. Ask any man, and youre likely to get a "Idk, maybe, I guess, if she wants them, gee you know I just never really thought of it".

Thats what ive been saying! Men just dont think about whether or not they want kids or marriage. Most of them, IF they thought about it, would realize that they do want marriage and kids. But they dont know it. Cuz they dont think, but also because they believe the work of building relationships, getting to the alter, creating marital bliss, creating and raising kids is all women's work.

They believe a woman is going to swoop in and do all of that work on their behalf, and they'll simply reap the rewards of women's labor. They believe it's unnecessary to desire those rewards, because theyre coming his way regardless.

So if a woman doesnt opt in to that bogus arrangement and deliver a man the family he believes he's owed, that man is left disillusioned and angry.

I appreciate that he at least had the self-respect to admit that it was HIS OWN mistake. HE should have been more thoughtful, intentional, and proactive about his life goals earlier in life, and no woman is going to get him out of the situation he put himself in.

The moral, queens, is to refuse to pick up men's slack. If he isn't intentional about his goals, then let him fall behind. Women have been doing too much of the family building work for too long, and we deserve better than these men who think they can breeze through life while we provide them with offspring.

It is, indeed, a tragedy. One they bring upon themselves.