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With how much scrotes hate and deep down inside, fear women, you'd assume they wouldn't blabber on about their traumas the moment they meet you
But ofc, misogyny prevails and they look to you to be their free therapist. This guy told me that he has abandonnent issues. At first I felt for him.
Then he began leading me on. He'd get drunk and tell me how amazing I am in the middle of the night. He called me his "angel".
When he sobered up, all of the sweetness disappeared and he would become cold. Telling me things like I don't actually have much meaning in his life.
I got fed up. I unfriended him and stopped talking. He added me back, we began talking again (terrible decision on my end). He asked me why I stopped talking and that he missed me. So I explained that I felt like things changed from when I first met him and that he doesn't seem to enjoy being around me.
He said thars not true and he doesn't "mind" having me around (really?). Things quickly devoled back into the same bullshit. I didn't even bother to tell him how I felt.
I knew his birthday was coming up so I waited until that morning and blocked him everywhere lmfao. I was a younger and this was pre fds so I still made bad decisions (Im still learning tbh) but this was the first time ive stood up for myself and followed through.
It seems the ones who tell you stuff right away it's mostly a lie to appeal to your sympathy and empathy. Then once they have you thr abuse starts and they see you as a suckered for falling for their sob stories and made up lies. They feel you deserve the abuse for being stupid enough to hang around after that whopping lie they just told you about how they were abused by their ex etc. It's not that we're stupid it's just that they're liars but the point is to use our God given intuition to discern the truth from lies and realize normal men don't open up about things like that right away with stranger women. In my experience the ones who all did that were narcissistic abusers. They also went on and on about their financial problems etc and most likely wanted a sucker pickme to be their roommate and help pay their mortgage off.
I am smiling so hard. Good job! We all make mistakes, we just have to learn from them. You're doing great.