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Insecure men freak out when they hear that women don't want them.
Last night I met a business contact for a meeting, regarding a client's business I am selling. The buyer I met with started by interrogating me about my status (single? Boyfriend? Married?). I made it clear I am not attached, and when he pressed me to know if I was looking for someone, I made it clear that I have no desire for a man at the moment.
He freaked out as if I've been "traumatized" or "hate men." No matter how much I clarified that I just don't want a man right now (no trauma, I just want space), he seemed to take it very personally. And he tried to see if I'd been treated badly or if my distance from men is somehow my fault, or because I'm damaged. NOPE! Just smarter these days, scrote!
I turned the conversation to the business at hand and we ended cordially with plans to meet the owner. But in his follow up email he again talked about me being such a fun woman, but "pushing men away." Loser. JFC my job is to sell the company - be professional FFS.
He also tried to convince me that women WANT attention from men, they want to be told they're beautiful and flirted with. I told him No We Don't, and that I've had so much attention from men in my life, I just want them to leave me alone. I don't need male accolades or flirting. He couldn't believe it. He is Middle Eastern, and I have observed that many Arab men are trained to treat women like this. It's exhausting.
What was instructive for me, is how insecure he is! If an attractive woman doesn't want or need a man, then what is his purpose? It's like he lives to colonize women.
This incident confirms AGAIN that women are superior, and all men's misogyny and predation comes from the deep knowledge that they are inferior, and desperately need us.
Btw I'm 51, a polished professional with some status and intelligence. I still get hit on and I'm just tired of it. There is no "wall."
I once had a Neurologist call me 'dense' once he found out I didnt want to get married... He started mansplaining me and giving me unwarranted advice on how it's all about choosing the right partner for marriage and not about entirely leaving the idea of marriage because of a few bad apples 🙄 Mind you he's a religious Muslim. This scrote didn't know me and yet he had the audacity to Judge and make me feel like I'm some stupid confused lost child who didn't know what she wanted out of life ( I'm 29 BTW)
I live in Muslim third world country, so most people in here get shocked at the idea of a woman who doesn't want to get married or have kids ...they start shoving their nose in your business by giving their unwanted opinions and life advice on the importance of breeding. 🤡💩
"He is Middle Eastern, and I have observed that many Arab men are trained to treat women like this. It's exhausting."
Again and again and again and again and again I read about FDSers' awful experiences with Muslim/Arab men. I have had numerous negative experiences with Muslim/Arab men as well.
What makes me furious is that many people (including a small, ignorant percentage of FDSers) would call us racist/xenophobic/Islamaphobic for merely sharing our observations.
I always say "racism" is a woman's way of protecting herself against predators. If you're not comfortable with a race/culture because you have had many bad experiences with people from that race/culture, then you should have every right to avoid and speak out against them.
There is no “wall.”