In the Wodaabe tribe men are chosen for their beauty and we all know men hit the wall over 25 when it comes to looks and I see a lot of angry manlets saying that even women in these tribes would never give a nice guy a chance.
those men need to look at their best to compete for the attention of women.
Like it should be, It's women who carry so they should be able to choose the best men for their children. These women aren't shamed for wanting the best they can get when it comes to handsomeness and resources.
The reason why older men can still be predators is because women give them the power to choose, women should only have that power to choose the best in order to eliminate these predators and they have no choice but to man up and use their prime years wisely or lose their privilege to reproduce or even receive attention from women.
A woman's time is a privilege for the worthy but men act like it's their right to use your time for free offering nothing of value in return.
Many men act like they should have the right to choose too but they don't. They aren't the primary caregivers, and they don't risk their lives to give birth. They don't outlive their wives in general and would never create a community where they look after someone else's children. Women will, They not only create life but they also make that life survive.
Men leave for something better after he spawned multiple children because men aren't judged for their beauty and they are usually the choosers on the dating market. If women are choosers men have only two options. take responsibility for the family he created or die alone.
Umoja also triggers men because that tribe has proven that women are morally superior and they are happier without men and feel at peace enjoying their lives under a strong sisterhood. Yet men still hold on to the delusion that women can't be happy without them.
This is literally nature, in countless species. There's evidence this is largely how it was for our ancestors when we were all hunter-gatherers, before agriculture and so on. Females choose males and that leaves many males out. Women are more communal with each other and males are allowed in at their behest, but never to stay, just to mate for the most part - that's how our bonobo cousins do it. That's how it goes. There is no patriarchy in these species and males are chosen based on temperament, how they look (yes, males are chosen for BEAUTY in so many species), and if they will have healthy, viable offspring to contribute to the female. As an example: why do you think a male cardinal is brighter than the female? It's not because she's lesser because she's less brightly-colored - she's the one who is choosing beautiful healthy males to mate with! The female is the selector. Over time, more males become better looking or they don't reproduce. She is the chooser. She has the power.
It's not what we bring to the table - we ARE the table. We have always been the table.
Edit - and to add to this, we must rebalance nature once more. Our world currently is the result of an imbalance in male favor - and we are all suffering for it. Nature herself won't tolerate this much longer. Let's reset it, starting with US, ladies.