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I doubt that she just came unhinged like that randomly, he probably slowly drove her that way and now he's the victim 😢🙃 something about this story is disgusting to me. A few points:
Clearly this is some classic red pill dread nonsense, because he knew already that she would be this upset, meaning that he tore her mental health down to the nubs and now wanted to test if there was a trauma bond. He knew she wouldn't do it.
I don't believe this story tbh
Look at how happy he is to report that she's "still crazy" years later. He added that in because he's proud of the work he did and happy that she has not healed from his abuse
At the end of the story, he says that he was studying for a test that night. So you were so busy studying that you had time to break up with her? Cause in his second comment he claims the fight was about him studying, but his original story just says "the night I broke up with her". Seems like it was planned.
OF COURSE he was living in HER house. He even says he had nowhere to go, so he had to stay on a friends couch. Sir I'm suppose to believe that you weren't dread gaming her in her own house?? BOY BYE
Sounds like typical narc male with borderline personality female relationship. He gaslights and ignores her into insanity then plays victim. These narcs know exactly what they're doing and how to drive the already unstable (due to prior abuse) even further into the mental illness abyss. Narc men look for bipolar and borderline women; I've had 3 guys ask me on dates if I were bipolar or BPD. I said no, and I never heard from them again. A good guy wouldn't be gloating years later over having a fight that drove a woman to want to drive off a bridge. He would have hoped she'd have gotten help and had improved.
Good men are humiliated and ashamed about having experienced things like this. They wouldn't even want to talk about it, let alone brag on a public forum that they were leeching off a mentally ill person and eventually drove her to a total physical and mental meltdown that required involuntary hospitalization. That's the kind of story you would save for your very closest friends and family, or your own therapist. The fact that he's sharing the story so cavalierly and without any apparent shame gives it away that he's a heartless asshole at minimum.
Most women with BPD are sexual abuse survivors and they are drawn to narcissists like moths to a flame. Narcs love them because they're easy to control and because they have a history of diagnosed mental illness, the narc is endlessly free to gaslight them while telling everyone else that everything is the crazy girlfriend's fault and the abuse she's alleging he perpetrates against her is all in her head. Why do these scrotes always tell on themselves? But thank goodness they do, if you know what to listen for.
The audacity. If this was in the reverse the op wouldn't be alive to write that comment and boast about how her boyfriend is still batshit crazy enough to make her bleed.
I’m not sure if I want to read this… something tells me I’ll be reminded of my ex and be in a bad mood for the rest of the night.
Lol, what a liar. I’d bet real money he’s lying about everything and in reality she tried to have the empathetic break up talk and he flipped out and threatened to kill himself when he realized he’d be losing his housing, free food, free maid, and free sex. I bet the car was hers too and he was freaking out at losing it and wouldn’t give her the keys back and that she called the police on him for refusing to leave her home or give her car keys back. He went on about those keys waaaaay more than her supposed threat of suicide.
The lesson here is to not believe a thing a man says on the internet or IRL. Instead, assume ridiculous lies. Men lie so much more than we realize. SO MUCH MORE.
I knew this one guy in high school who bragged about destroying a girl's mental health and how she never recovered from the break up and how he behaved before and after the relationship ending towards her. At the risk of sounding like I'm bringing my ex husband too much (sorry!), he also was glad that we "trauma bonded" and goaded me into killing myself for a few points during our relationship. There's social media pics and videos of young men proud at the fact that they drove their exes insane and sent to the psychiatric hospital.
Much like breaking up with a woman, men would rather the woman do the dirty deed and do it herself. Men want to murder women, but some are smart enough to realize that there's a better way to do this, and that's by trying to make the woman kill herself through chronic, long term abuse. If she succeeds in killing herself, he'll have his blood lust sated in getting rid of a woman he hates, plus, he'll have a story of woe to share with new women that he will manipulate with next.
The worst part is, people will believe this guy, because we now live in a post Depp/Heard era and #metoo is under attack. Now men are much more believed than ever before instead of women. Any man who tells you he has an ex-gf who abused him should be taken as a huge red flag, because there's a high chance he's lying and is actually the instigator.