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Nearly every time I see a guy complaining about depression, the reasons they give for feeling depressed are a result of their own doing or lack of doing.
They always complain about not having a girlfriend, being a virgin, or not being as cool and sociable as other men. I recognize how serious social anxiety can be, it's currently taking over my life right now
But I noticed these guys always have some sort of excuse ready for why they can't change their lives. They feel like if they can't get laid or can't "get girls" then every thing they do Is hopeless. They don't want to eat healthy, they don't want to exercise, they don't want to learn how to dress or groom themselves
And they always make excuses for why they can't practice socializing. I've had these guys vent to me and I don't think they realize how much their complaining is a massive drain. My rule is if I'm not doing anything to fix my situation, stop talking about it.
It's not fair me to sack other people with emotional labor and then take it for granted by not doing anything about it. I was "friends" with a few guys like these and theyre such a drain to be around.
One guy straight up told me that he feels like my life is easier because I'm a woman and that was the final straw that made me block him. I don't understand how men (especially white men) who don't even come from impoverished or dysfunctional back grounds end up with "depression". They live in a system made for them, by other men and they still manage to be failures and crybabies.
Women have to go through so much more than men. Getting paid less, getting harassed since we were little girls (nearly every woman has been assaulted or knows a woman who has been assaulted), being pressured to have kids, then shamed and left alone to raise kids, shamed for aging, shamed for our looks, shamed for our sexuality or lack thereof, constant anxiety about potentially being attacked on the street.
We have so much shit to worry about and I almost NEVER see women complain. The only time I really see women complain about depression is when it's caused by a scrote!! I always see women looking for ways to improve their lives and the people around them..
Men do not have actual problems based on their maleness. Men's problems are fake problems, and them committing suicide more means nothing. Privileged people in first world countries commit suicide and go on about depression more. Men will commit suicide because their mom won't buy them the next Fallout extension for Steam or whatever. Women commit suicide because they just got raped for the third time.
Legit. I went through the same thing, it's always white men who think being a woman is easier, they literally transition to prove it sometimes and they can't, they lose respect from their peers and they're not living the weird futa fantasy they had.
All in all they have those excuses because they're actually trying desperately to not change at all. They're trying to make us feel bad and fix their life for them. They've never felt the anxiety and urgency of getting their shit together like we have. I grew up in poverty, I literally built myself from the ground up and I won't have an inheritance like those dickheads will.
After years and years of feeling bad for men and Falling for their shit, I don't believe in their mental health problems. They don't have them and they use psychiatry terminology to get everyone coddling and enabling them.
Even in suicide it's mainly malicious or right after a murder.
I remember being 13 and the amount of men threatening suicide to get nudes was astounding, then he'd give the pick-me friends my personal phone number to call me and tell me to "stop bullying him". I was a child and idfk what was going on.
I remember taking a dump and a narcissist threatened suicide to me while I was on the toilet, I literally laughed in his face and I never heard him bitch ever again.
They don't have problems, they might have childhood trauma problems but overall they get everything handed to them and they don't get to experience what it's like to earn a spot in this world organically through hard work without revolving your life around sex. It feels so painful because if they go up any farther it's not compelling because they'll never be Bill Gates, the last thing they need to complete their privilege package is someone to coddle them and serve them. They will go as far as to blame the industrial revolution or the liberation of women for their problems because they have no intention of changing in the present, they're all narcissists.
I watched a video about the male depression epidemic we keep hearing about. Most of the comments were men claiming that their depression was a result of not being complimented enough. That was eye-opening…. That’s all I’ll say.
Interesting how depression rates in men skyrocket as less and less of them are getting married at a certain age compared to 50 or so years ago.. it's almost as if... women add priceless value to a man's life just by being. 🤷♀️This is why we don't lower our standards. We do not need men to feel fulfilled or happy, men need us.
Men couldn't survive a day living in a woman's shoes. No man can imagine the depression of a single mother bearing the weight of the world on her shoulders or the horror of a girl who is raped and forced to have her rapist's child. Most men get the world given to them on a silver platter and squander it. Their depression comes from not banging hot women or getting everything they think they're entitled to.
When a man admits to having mental illness, it is always *ALWAYS* used as an excuse for unacceptable behavior.
It's why he can't work, it's why he's a pervert, it's why he is abusive, it's why he is so lazy, it's why he never washes his bedding, ad nauseum.
And it's not like they are trying to improve themselves. By labeling the source of their dysfunction as a mental illness, they think it is a good enough reason for you to put up with their bs.
Depressed low value men often don't have the qualities and attributes needed to overcome their depression, which is
ability to self reflect and instropect
avoiding therapy and healing, primarily use women as free therapy instead
neglect, of their health and appearance
denial, about their addictions and themselves
and last but mostly importantly, ACCOUNTABILITY. Low value men avoid this at all costs, it is quite literally what makes them low value in the first place.
Men are taught to hide your emotions, rather than process them, and quite often run away from their problems and themselves. The only way they want to express emotion is through anger and aggression. They will uno reverse and point the finger at women for all their wrong doings. They are less capable of healing and facing themselves, so their depression spirals, and their methods of suicide tend to be more violent.
Male problems are created for the sake of playing victim, otherwise they'd have to face reality that they're losers and there's no excuse for their behavior, and imagine a man admitting he's the problem rather than blaming everyone else 😒
Exactly, the amount of pride and ego on these losers. They both simultaneously hate themselves and think they're too good to try. I couldn't agree more with that observation about white depressed guys.
Correct, women and girls become depressed because they are either sheltered too much, or gave up their liberty and dreams for child birth and catering to men.
Men on the other hand become depressed because they left marriage and feel robbed because the first wife isn't taking him back. They got sick and the first wife they left refuse to look after them or the wife got fat. It's hardly because they faced unfairness, it's usually because of their own actions or childlike view of life. Men are the happiest when they have the benefits of being a leader aka bossing around, the privilige of the husband such as sleep with you and father babies, let you raise them. responsibilities of a lazy roomate, 50/50 financially while you do 90/10 for everything else. Rights and decision making of an adult human male, but the accountability and expectations of dogs.
You can't blame a dog for what it did wrong because it's your fault for not training it properly, you can't expect much from a dog because a dog can't do much besides barking and asking for walks or food.