Dinner with someone from OLD tonight. It seemed okay at first, no obvious dealbreakers yet. The food arrived and we began to eat. He stopped me after a few bites and said, "You have a beautiful smile but there's something stuck in between your teeth." Embarrassed, I immediately excused myself to the ladies room to take care of it. As I rose from my seat, he grinned with scrote satisfaction and said, "Just kidding."
I stared at him for a few seconds, baffled. He said, "I just like to lighten things up sometimes." I said, "I see," collected my coat, and walked out the door without a glance back. He was blocked and deleted by the time I got to my car.
I don't know how he reacted to my leaving. I also don't care. It probably embarrassed him and made him look like a fool. I hope so.
At least now I know a new restaurant to avoid. The food was mediocre and the ambience was tacky. Of course he picked it. 🤡
This man was a high-earning professional with an impressive CV and we know a lot of the same people through work. It's beyond cringe that he tried such a transparent and juvenile tactic on me, but scrotes always tell on themselves no matter their accomplishments and status. Who are these people? I assume he learned it on some red pill site.
I absolutely love that you walked out. WE SHOULD ALL WALK OUT MORE instead of endure LVM bullshit
He probably went home and made a reddit post about it.
But good job leaving immediately 👑
QUEEN SHIT 💯💯💯 also if any of your mutual friends/colleagues give you shit for “not having a sense of humor” or whatever, just say that actually, you found it VERY funny when you walked out on his dumb ass 😂
oh girl, i wish i could have been there to see his face hahahah
he probably thinks you're too sensitive and gets offended easily or something;
"she doesn't have a sense of humor"
asshole
Some guys have bad taste in "sense of humour". Glad you were so swift in your response! Respect.
You handled it with class, queen 💅
Well done! It must have felt amazing.
That neg reminds me of an old episode of Rich Bride Poor Bride I saw recently. When the woman got to the altar, turned to her groom and smiled — he reached over to "wipe lipstick" off her teeth and laughed at her. She didn't have lipstick on her teeth. She laughed it off but it was apparent she was humiliated. I was stunned he did that. You dodged the bullet of a "funny" guy like that.
If I could high five you, I would.
Men absolutely know what they're doing, and I bet this man had never experienced consequences for his despicable behavior.
Women need to share more stories like this to emphasize that we do not argue, explain, communicate, negotiate, or fight when we are being disrespected on a date. We just walk out, block, and delete.
Queen move!!! What a jackass! But you're an inspiration for leaving as soon as he showed himself to be a tacky imbecile. 👑👑👑
Lmao what a weirdo?? Good on you for dipping without a single glance back! I’m here for walking out as soon as they’re not meeting our standards. Always put yourself and your boundaries first!
I aspire to be you. Queen move!
My mind went to the dark place and immediately thought he was trying to get you to leave the table so he can drug your food and/or drink.
Well done on immediately walking out. The only correct response to a neg.
I love how emotionally strong you are!
You are amazing.
Whoop whoop. You’re my hero! He was expecting you to smile and laugh it off like women are trained to do. Then he could sit there and feel one-up on you. Nope! If more women could do this we could start a revolution. Every time a man tries to pull some some dumb ass manipulative shit, just look at him with absolute distain (maybe throw in a laugh to show him you see right through his games) and walk away without another word. Love it🤩
You dropped this, queen. 👑 This is the energy I live for. "Take ZERO SHIT" in the words of Hedonism_Bot 🥰💃
Also, for a neg that was super pathetic and not clever at all IMO. All negs suck but that one seemed especially...elementary 🤔 Guess he has to languish in the OLD wasteland now. Too bad so sad. 🤷🏻♀️
Love ittt! 👏
I'm sorry this happened to you. You handled this incredibly. Bravo for standing up for yourself!
Since when is purposely embarrassing someone "lightening the mood".