When disrespect is served then he has revealed his true colors. Don't stick around. Stay away from him don't talk to him even if you live in the same house. And plan your departure in silence. Wanting to make it work, staying will make men believe you are a doormat and he can do it again. Men don't respect you for staying, they think you are an idiot.
Leave, the sound of your heels walking away is the only langue they understand.
This is also why I will never love men with all my heart, I don't want it to be difficult to leave his ass. Love men a little so that it takes a little to get rid of them and that you can drop them like a brick when they decide to leave. I don't want to lay curled in bed for a man who left or do disgraceful things like that. I will not allow it. When they leave or when I snap ties I want to feel nothing and that nothing changes when they are gone. I only snap ties when I'm disrespected so I'm not fickle, I'm ruthless as I can be to force men to know their place.
I established no contact / limited contact right after I kicked him out and he refused to talk to me or discuss coparenting because his feefees hurt from the rejection. I refused to sign anything his lawyer sent me (mostly insane requests or parenting agreements that only benefit him). The judge refused to grant me child support or even address it. I managed to get child support and years of back pay out of him myself by making his lawyer panic over discrepancies in his financial paperwork. His lawyer hates me and avoids contact now.
My ex is only allowed to contact me via email or a parenting chat app, contact has to be about visitation and the kidsā health only, plus pick ups and drop offs only at a third party location (he doesnāt know where I live and doesnāt know my phone number). He gets to see me from a hundred yards away or from the tinted windows of the car only when we exchange the kids, but he is not to approach me or talk to me during exchanges. We alternate certain holidays, otherwise heās every other weekend dad in a strict court-ordered schedule. We do not mix families, we do not attend the same events.
I set boundaries and was ruthlessly consistent. Court has mostly been on his side and wouldnāt grant me any orders, so the boundaries are mine and for my mental well being. When my ex and the judge tried to get mad at me for my boundaries I told them it was part of my safety plan outlined by my womenās DV shelter and refused to budge. Still waiting on court to make decisions about custody and decision making after three years, but maybe this year.
So the summation is that I achieved it by being a ruthless, cold, bitch.
My oldest daughter dad is like this. He always tries to insist we talk in-person. I tell him āyou can text me or email meā but he gets so mad about that. The other day I refused to talk to him so when he picked up our daughter he shoved her out of the way and came walking into my house! Heās like āI told you we needed to talkā. I donāt understand his fascination with insisting we audibly chat. I can only assume itās a control thing. Iām trying to set a boundary and he stomps all over it. For what itās worth, he dumped me.
Youāre so smart to set these guidelines. Wish I would have been intelligent enough to get them put into our custody agreement.
Same. I would leave it there and he can figure out himself why I would do that. I hate to say it but this woman is a pickme. Why worry about not being courteous when he's not courteous enough to remember his vows.
Our good sis really parented this worthless man back to health only to get cheated on as soon as he could remember how to use the internet smh. And according to a recent article heās fighting her for half of everything in the divorce. She should have let the devil have him the first time.
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i don't think she's a pick me. i think she was naive to think he would change after the accident and with her help during his recovery. if she's still with him or if she defends his behaviour, then she is a pick me.
Woof, hope she doesnāt have to take on his medical debt in the divorce.
Iāve broken up with a guy while he was in the hospital. Made him homeless too. No regrets. He was abusive. He had big denial over it and pretended I didnāt kick him out right up until he was released.
Itās actually a very good time to leave an abusive man because he canāt go anywhere and canāt hurt you. If youāre married, itās a good way to keep living in you house or apt and have him be the one who has to move out.
Iām sure he had red flags that got overlooked. I mean, she went back to him after finding out the man cheated. Personally, Iāve just given up on finding good men. If they exist, then it has to be an extremely low percentage. Iām talking like 0.001% here. Every experience Iāve had with men have turned out to be awful so perhaps I am biased. I will continue to not trust men unless proven otherwise which will be very hard to prove. I'm better off alone
I hear you. I once read this r/relationship post from a woman who was driving her husbandās car and found a second cell phone under his seat. This was before smartphones became popular and some people still had flip phones so no password to view recent call logs. She ends up calling the numbers to find out that her super adoring, loving, perfect family man hubby of the year was regularly visiting escorts and having unprotected sex with multiple affair partners. I think she was either pregnant or just recently had a baby when she found out. Another time, one of my exes told me that when his mother was in the hospital giving birth his father was downstairs fucking a nurse he met just a few hours earlier in Labor & Delivery. A lot of men (and pickme women) are psychopaths. This is why you never stop vetting and always protect yourself first. To quote my gyno, āalways wear a condom even if youāre monogamous because these men, they lie!ā Iām sure sheās seen it allš¤®
āThe Sociopath Next Doorā by Martha Stout needs to be read by a lot more young women. Itās not that they donāt see the red flags, itās that they cannot grasp the depths of the malice psychopaths have because these women constantly project their own empathy and caring into these men. Itās sad af.
Anyone who tries to tell these women whatās up is dismissed as being ātoo negative.ā š People think their man with a trail of broken women is the exception and itās delulu!
This is so sad, its so clear he was using her as a free nurse while he gets better. It shows that a cheating man will cheat regardless of what you do. He will cheat regardless. I hope she got a lot in the divorce
Did you notice how she refers to the other women as āthe femalesā or as āanother femaleā?
As much as I feel for her situation, since she procreated with this scrote, she obviously has a male-identified mindset. Also, it wouldn't surprise me if she is a cool girl (with their, āI'm not like other females! Iām one of the guys!ā pleas to scrotes. Ugh! They are the worst).
if i were in her shoes, i'd confront him about the cheating and after his apologies i would simply walk away. forever. never to be seen again. he would spend weeks in the hopes that i'd come back until he finally understood that i was gone forever.
The only thing men love in this life is their penis. The sooner you figure this out, the better your life will be. My ex husband didn't want me after I broke my neck and jaw. Start LEAVING these males when they cheat and when they get sick. You can 100% guarantee he'd leave you if you got sick. He won't even be there for you when you're not sick.
š¤£ Go to YouTube or TikTok and find Princella Clark, the High Powered Podcast. She breaks these men down and explains what they are capable of.
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His ass would have been left, full body cast, sling and all. Fk that.
OMG. Is there another video after this somewhere with the conclusion to her story? I hope she kicked him out at that point rather than waste more time.
When disrespect is served then he has revealed his true colors. Don't stick around. Stay away from him don't talk to him even if you live in the same house. And plan your departure in silence. Wanting to make it work, staying will make men believe you are a doormat and he can do it again. Men don't respect you for staying, they think you are an idiot.
Leave, the sound of your heels walking away is the only langue they understand.
This is also why I will never love men with all my heart, I don't want it to be difficult to leave his ass. Love men a little so that it takes a little to get rid of them and that you can drop them like a brick when they decide to leave. I don't want to lay curled in bed for a man who left or do disgraceful things like that. I will not allow it. When they leave or when I snap ties I want to feel nothing and that nothing changes when they are gone. I only snap ties when I'm disrespected so I'm not fickle, I'm ruthless as I can be to force men to know their place.
"I confronted him in the hospital, not my proudest moment"
I'd spit in his face as soon as his eyes opened, and placed them divorce papers on his stomach.
Too bad the accident wasnāt worse. Trash walking the earth
Woof, hope she doesnāt have to take on his medical debt in the divorce.
Iāve broken up with a guy while he was in the hospital. Made him homeless too. No regrets. He was abusive. He had big denial over it and pretended I didnāt kick him out right up until he was released.
Itās actually a very good time to leave an abusive man because he canāt go anywhere and canāt hurt you. If youāre married, itās a good way to keep living in you house or apt and have him be the one who has to move out.
Honestlyā¦.I just donāt trust men and I donāt think Iāll ever be able to trust them. I fully believe men have no moral compass
This is why
1) you always walk the second you see the first red flag and
2) never build a man
If he had been on life support....
I would leave his ass in the hospital and walk away
This is so sad, its so clear he was using her as a free nurse while he gets better. It shows that a cheating man will cheat regardless of what you do. He will cheat regardless. I hope she got a lot in the divorce
She should've unplugged the life support š¤·šæāāļø
Did you notice how she refers to the other women as āthe femalesā or as āanother femaleā?
As much as I feel for her situation, since she procreated with this scrote, she obviously has a male-identified mindset. Also, it wouldn't surprise me if she is a cool girl (with their, āI'm not like other females! Iām one of the guys!ā pleas to scrotes. Ugh! They are the worst).
Sounds like he needs another hospital "visit".
Men like this should be subject to penectomy and castration
if i were in her shoes, i'd confront him about the cheating and after his apologies i would simply walk away. forever. never to be seen again. he would spend weeks in the hopes that i'd come back until he finally understood that i was gone forever.
The only thing men love in this life is their penis. The sooner you figure this out, the better your life will be. My ex husband didn't want me after I broke my neck and jaw. Start LEAVING these males when they cheat and when they get sick. You can 100% guarantee he'd leave you if you got sick. He won't even be there for you when you're not sick.
š¤£ Go to YouTube or TikTok and find Princella Clark, the High Powered Podcast. She breaks these men down and explains what they are capable of.
His ass would have been left, full body cast, sling and all. Fk that.
OMG. Is there another video after this somewhere with the conclusion to her story? I hope she kicked him out at that point rather than waste more time.