On reddit you don't know who's being truthful about what they post but I can relate to the OP a lot. I used to have a lot of pickme friends who would turn off the lights and let me walk to the locker room in the pitch black dark. I never understood why ppl went out of their way to do that but maybe because I seemed feeble and they can get away with it. That was friendship but with brief relationships I had those men like to do the same. Like having them deliberately choose a horror movie and during a suspenseful moment they screech or make a sudden noise while I already mentioned I feel stressed out. Not only that but It's like I'm nothing but a child to these ppl they can pull pranks on. And when you feel offended they act like you're making a big deal out of nothing and also add guilty tripping on top.
Giving ppl a fright and it's not Halloween or April fools is not an action that should be tolerated because giving a person you are supposed to nurture stress and anxiety for no reason with pranks pretty much shows that that he is a Narcist. If he doing things to you because he think your reaction is cute weather If you like it or not then beware.
The reason why I think they are punishing you is because their dream woman will never receive this type of treatment but you do because they feel they are settling down for you because you are the only woman who has low standards but doesn't look like the woman they want. I've been with these type of prankers and I occasionally hear chit chat that he wished he could have a smoking hot babe like Jessica Alba or Megan Fox while I went above my budget to give him a Birthday night out last week.
Im leaving my boyfriend over a prank. : TrueOffMyChest (reddit.com)
These malicious pranks are dangerous and can go wrong very quickly, I don't know how people are still ok with these pranks on their friends/family/partner. Or maybe they do know the risks, they just don’t CARE about that person's safety. Maybe they hate themselves so much that they want good people to suffer.
If they are “innocently” switching the lights off on you, “accidentally” spilling water where you might slip, etc and just overall trying to stress/frighten you, then they do NOT have any basic consideration for your safety or care.
No good man who loves his partner would actually try to endanger her. No good man wants to see his partner in a frightened state either- especially by his own actions.
I despise malicious prank videos where someone gets their clothes or personal items ruined, and would dump a guy who thought pranks were fun.
I have children, so occasionally we sneak up on each other to give a fright… but not often.
I'm not fond of pranks that make a person cry or angry. Surprises or light jumpscares are different.
It's not funny. And I don't understand people who think it is funny.
Can THAT even be considered a prank?! It’s so cruel and abusive. When I think of pranks , I think of something light hearted. I think these prank vids on you tube have really warped our minds on what’s an acceptable prank. I don’t even want to mention that I do enjoy the odd prank anymore because I think it can be taken the wrong way. Especially with men.
What this guy did is horrible and I’m glad she left him. No one deserves to live in THEIR OWN home being afraid every second of the day.
I just read the link and as God is my witness I've never wanted so much to swoop in and rescue a fellow woman. Thank goodness she's already got a friend who's taken her in. That man's "bathtub prank" was fucking PSYCHOTIC and she has dodged not just a bullet but a cannonball. I am sorry she was already living with him, but I hope she can get her stuff out of there and block him from entering within fifty feet of her life from this moment forward.
You should see the YT channel, Whealth by Slaiman. He has been pranking his gf, now wife, for the past 8 years. Super harsh pranks too. But then he'll do some super sweet pranks too. She married him anyways.
"iT's jUsT a PrAnk bR0!!!1!"