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You know when you go to a bar or some other environment and some scrote tries to size you up under this narcissistic assumption that you exist to benefit/center him?
This happened at a bar and the guy was like 50 years old, I was just talking to "be nice" because these fuckers are fragile. The age difference was like 30 years and first he asked me to watch his wallet while he used the bathroom (why was he vetting me when I clearly was out of his league e.i being fuckin 23 I have no idea.) He tried asking for my number and eluded to a relationship, then I had to drunkenly inform him on the philosophy of just staying single and not constantly be a vampire to someone, then he insulted a cut I had on my lip I got from an exercise machine.
He kept trying to size me up, assume HE'S worth it and vet me even though I was very clearly uninterested. He was old, ugly, probably unemployed, desperate and his voice pitch was high AF and I hate chipmunk voices, idgaf , if their voices aren't deep it's like I'm on the Disney channel and I'm not fucking around with that.
I'm also Thinking of the day some guy at a Dunkin donuts got mad me and random teenagers were on their phones and he yelled out saying "HELLO EVERYONE" to everyone to prove some dumb statement about society, then he yelled "HELLO MISS, HI, HOW ARE YOU MISS" x 2 as I'm like 20 feet away with my hat tipped down because I literally knew he'd be annoying the moment he entered the door, I whispered "called it" the moment he started projecting fake joy.
I only go to the higher class areas to hang out, I stay away from high populated areas and Scrotes are still just everywhere. They truly believe they're good enough and it's so sad because I remember just last year before FDS I had no self respect and I thought every flirt was some opportunity to gain something but it's just annoying noise now and males don't contribute anything.
I think my biggest gripe with males attention-whoriness is that when a woman is loud or cracks too many jokes she's immediately branded as annoying or incompetent but men can create spreadsheets on social interactions, be annoying on purpose to gain something and not be considered sociopathic narcissists. They're just "regular ol joe's" trying to get some by hitting on clearly uninterested people and invading introverted spaces (e.i getting mad at teens for being on phones and happily talking to each other pretending it's the downfall of society.)
I'm also sick of the notion that this behavior is somehow relatable, reasonable and I have to respect all the pathetic ways men choose to exert non-existent power over average people. I'm sick of the constant forced interactions to exude masculinity and I'm sick of chipmunk men thinking they have a chance just because we're both drinking shitty beer.
I absolutely get to crack jokes because it's fun and I never have some weird ploy of getting into peoples pants and controlling their headspace. Of course not being a manipulative fuck or having "sophisticated" humor is just another reason to demean me and other women who choose not to base our whole lives around scheming and stealing other people's energy and headspace. (I'm clearly salty about making cat jokes in the office.) Men will say it's not sophisticated or funny but then they'll joke about r*ping a child/dog like it's a comedy central special while I'm eating food.
This post seems choppy but overall I'm talking about men's inflated view of themselves and how their vision of social power is skewed to the point where they're the ultimate gold diggers and they always have been. Either at our wallets or our brains and that's partly why they're so "lonely" they only want relationships where they can be the tape worm and you're the host. it's not a good model on friendships either, they don't crave friendships or relationships. They crave a bangmaid or attention from strangers as dumb forms of power that even the humblest HVM can easily fall for.
Guys don't have many close guy friends because neither of them would actually do the work and they know damn well that every interaction is practically parasitic, they'd rather be parasites to us instead because "we're so empathetic" until we're not because now we have spaces like this... and now we're heartless bitches for knowing that they're messed up and not worth our energy.
Conclusion: Being a bitch to men is totally worth it.
Also avoiding men in low income areas is the best thing anyone can do, they're so flirty because they know that getting a teen pregnant is easier than actually getting a career and waiting for a family. These guys are so pathetic and they're much more "horny" due to the worst case scenario benefiting them. (Kids > instant roommate to pay half and instant food stamps+ bangmaid.)
Once we go to rich boy land they don't do that because they don't need to, they can't bother being parasites if they already have more. Even if they're ugly af, they don't care as long as they got their DnD buddies and parents money they're fine. The rich guys very conveniently don't want kids because they only want the bangmaid and half of the rent paid. Or when gay men won't even bother respecting you because you're not on the menu. It's all about draining other people and being a parasite.
They legit get off to being manipulative, it gives them a rush.
We don't have to deal with that, we can form our own genuine relationships thatre bullshit free, without a shred of guilt and while they sit in a corner complaining they're "lonely" and oppressed by women somehow.
I can't believe he had you , "watch his wallet." ROFL WOW. Such an obvious and insulting test. I would have refused, and insisted he take his wallet with him. Like wtf does he expect you to do? Run out the door with it? Charge a bunch of drinks on it?? Tests are a huge red flag. One time, on a first date, the guy was 20 mins late. He kept texting saying he was sorry but he was on a late work call. He walked in the restaurant with a blanket, (it was freezing winter time) like an apology gift?? But he was testing me to see if I would be upset that he was late and how I would react. During the dinner he kept asking me if I was upset that he was late. I said no like 4 times. He kept pushing me, "are you SURE you weren't upset???" Finally I was like, "Bro WHY do you keep asking me if I was upset that you were late?? Do you want me to be upset or something?" In the moment , I didn't understand he was testing me. But after a few days I realized.
Steal it. Steal the wallet. I would straight up steal the damn wallet. He is basically commanding you to prove your worthiness and virtue to him by not stealing it. Fuck that noise steal the wallet if he wants someone to do a pickme dance for him he can go get a circus monkey.
I've never actually known a woman to be a gold digger. Only men are the ones who, no matter how low on the income scale the woman is, has spent his time to bleed her resources dry. Hobosexuals is a way more common thing than gold digging women(the term is wrongly gendered towards women. Only men would take take take and not feel guilty at all about it.)
Even single moms. Take it from me as a single mom-men don't feel bad about doing all they can to get what they want out of us materially, without any guilt about also taking food out of a child's mouth.
Their rationale is that if we are taking care of a child then we must be responsible enough to take care of them too. They see our struggle as a joke. I get 240 usd on lucky months from my kids dad and he bitches about it on social media endlessly. He hides much of his income to make it that low. It covers a week of groceries and maybe one outing with her. He does outings every single time he has her, and it makes him the parent who is more fun.
If given the chance he would have taken your wallet. They take what they can from us because they have this fantasy that men are always taking care of us. But they are not. If they actually had to experience being a woman, they would see how much easier it is for a man to take advantage of a woman financially than it is for a woman to do to a man.