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I’ve been taking rollerblading lessons and I was trying to rollerblade solo in the park. Let me tell you, I was dressed not so well. I was in sweatshorts with a children’s graphic t-shirt, and had a bunch of safety gear strapped onto me. I did not look cute; I looked like a little girl. This guy comes up to me and tries to flirt with me. Like, can’t you see that I’m fucking busy trying not to fall? I’m scared because I can’t run away since I can barely rollerblade. He can easily just push me down. I’m in my most vulnerable position. This is why I can’t rollerblade alone in public because I’ve realized the position I could potentially put my self in.
It’s crazy how men won’t approach me when I want to be approached with my hair, makeup done, with a cute outfit. I used to gas myself into thinking that it’s because I look better without better without be glammed up, or that there’s something wrong with my makeup. However, I’m starting to think that men will only approach you when you’re at your most vulnerable, or just not at the best version of yourself.
Omg I went on a solo hike today (to a very popular trail, so there are always other people) and was literally out of breath and a disgusting sweaty mess when some guy (also alone, but with his dog) commented on one of my tattoos and tried chatting with me. I told him to go ahead of me because I needed to take frequent breaks and don't like it when people are behind me when I hike (I didn't tell him my reasoning though). When I finally reached the top of the mountain, he was heading back down and was like "Hey you finally made it. Slow and steady!" and it felt like a neg. I think men approach us when we are vulnerable because they are too intimidated by us when we are put together. I never get approached when I'm open to it either. It goes to show how weak and pathetic most men are. They can sense our energy and know they don't stand a chance.
Or he’ll try to give a “compliment” like “I wish more girls dressed casually like you, you seem low maintenance.”
He approached you precisely because he's a nasty p3do and his brain couldn't discern adult woman from a kid.
makes sense. this way they can neg you and play with your insecurities. i agree, they fucken ruin everything. they make our lives so much harder than it needs to be. also, it is implied that he prefers little girls, based on your observation about how you looked. i look a lot younger and depending on my outfit, i might even look like a teen. that's when i get more noticed...
Guys like him dont want a woman that looks like a woman. Guys like him want a woman that looks like a little girl, hence why he approached you.
Disgusting!
The same thing happens to me.
Men usually only approach when I’m struggling with something, when I look like shit or when I wanna be left alone because I’m having a bad day.
Why do they do that!? I am glad you made it out of there safe. They ruin everything.
It's because many men are down low pedophiles which is why your little girl outfit was appealing.
I have the same problem with men (ofc lvm) approaching me in person when I look like a bum or when Im in a vunerable position like at my customer service job only :/.
Men like to teach women things. So it could be that they feel more comfortable approaching when they have the opportunity to do it.