I’ve been taking rollerblading lessons and I was trying to rollerblade solo in the park. Let me tell you, I was dressed not so well. I was in sweatshorts with a children’s graphic t-shirt, and had a bunch of safety gear strapped onto me. I did not look cute; I looked like a little girl. This guy comes up to me and tries to flirt with me. Like, can’t you see that I’m fucking busy trying not to fall? I’m scared because I can’t run away since I can barely rollerblade. He can easily just push me down. I’m in my most vulnerable position. This is why I can’t rollerblade alone in public because I’ve realized the position I could potentially put my self in.
It’s crazy how men won’t approach me when I want to be approached with my hair, makeup done, with a cute outfit. I used to gas myself into thinking that it’s because I look better without better without be glammed up, or that there’s something wrong with my makeup. However, I’m starting to think that men will only approach you when you’re at your most vulnerable, or just not at the best version of yourself.
I have the same problem with men (ofc lvm) approaching me in person when I look like a bum or when Im in a vunerable position like at my customer service job only :/.