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What is it with scrotes these days rating their own looks based on their own delusions? I've known now 2 scrotes that for all intents and purposes called themselves a "7" on a hot scale and another below avg in looks dude calling himself HANDSOME? I have seen these guys in person. They are not attractive by conventional means. I really dislike the rating scales going around on the internet in general because it's obviously subjective however- even I know I'm no show stopper. Even with flaws and all, I don't walk around like I'm hot sh!t Madison Beer for example.
If it's a confidence thing, great. I'm all for confidence and knowing what you want. However, these scrotes have been using this confidence in place of wanting women to speak to them, like on social media posts or dating? Why am I the one in Therapy if its the scrotes being delusional and batcr@p crazy? It's this that gives me issues, when they call themselves cute and handsome or hot as an opener.
Most men overestimate how good looking they are. They’ve been coddled and overly praised since childhood. This is what happens in a culture that socialises men to be entitled and arrogant.
It wouldn’t bother me so much if they weren’t going around calling women who are far more attractive than them a lower rating.
Lol this reminds me of my abusive LVM ex who paid girls on OnlyFans to rate him and his dick 🥴 most rated him a 10 and he couldn't seem to comprehend that they only complimented him since he paid them and they were hoping for more money 😂 he legit threw a tantrum that some girl gave him a 7 instead 😂 His true rating, in every aspect, was in the negatives 🥴
My ex did this. He once gave me a list of how handsome he was lol all I could think was, okay there Casanova!
All men tend to overestimate how much of a catch they (or their friends) are so much it's actually hilarious.
Most recent example from me: A close friend's new boyfriend keeps going on and on about how his poor best friend can't find a decent partner despite being "such a nice, loyal guy with a stable job and above average looks"... while throwing glances at my other friend and me who are currently single. I saw that guy at a party last weekend for the first time. The sad truth:
- Early thirties and already divorced once and single dad of a 12 year old daughter, called his ex wife a "bitch" in the first 5 minutes of our conversation
- overweight, balding, unshaven (unless that was supposed to be a "style") dressed in an old shirt and pants that have seen better days
- stuck on the low end of a blue collar career since he started working, zero ambition, most of his money gets eaten by alimony payments
- terrible manners and socially awkward
Gee... I wonder why he's single. It's a miracle he found wife number one like this. It's frankly insulting that my friend's boyfriend even thought that that guy would be in our league in any way. My single friend and I have a PhD and three MAs between us, are childfree career people, make really good money and -without wanting to sound vain- are way, waaaaay out of that guy's league looks-wise. Who in their right mind can look at us and that trainwreck and see a possible match. The only thing we roughly have in common is our age. Men are insane.
My friend’s ex referred to himself as “a 9 but if it was based on personality alone, a solid 10.” Dude was goofy looking and had an even worse personality. We still laugh about it years later. If I was that delusional I’d hope my loved ones would tell me to try therapy
I like to browse dating advice on Reddit and I see this alot. Alot of men overestimate how attractive they are.
It’s a symptom of pornsickness IMO, and a red flag that should never be ignored. In porn, the women constantly shower the man in praise while servicing him sexually. They compliment his penis size, muscles, etc. as they pretend to be attracted to him on camera. Men who watch a lot of porn (and all men who watch porn watch far more of it than they will admit to you) become accustomed to hearing this praise and begin to internalize it, no matter how bizarrely incongruent it is with their own looks.
Porn is often filmed from the man’s POV so that the coomer watching it can pretend he’s the lean, muscular, young, well-endowed man in the movie. This further blurs the line in a pornsick scrote’s brain between reality and fantasy, as it is intended to do. You will find that genuinely attractive high value men who aren’t pornsick narcissists are far more humble about their looks, and far less likely to consider themselves even in your league.
My boyfriend is extremely handsome (people turn to look, my friends make comments about it, etc.), 6’4”, lean, and dresses well. But he reluctantly accepts compliments about his looks and is way more focused on being a good man and lover. This is a strong sign that he is high value, one of many he has shown me. If a man is deluded about his looks and willing to brag about it, assume pornsickness and narcissism, as they often go hand-in-hand. And if he’s willing to indulge in magical thinking fantasies about his physical body, how realistic is he about his career, finances, health, future, and feelings? Run far away from these laughable scrotes.
Little dicky refers to himself as "a seven with his hair long" that right there says it all
I recently had a middle aged man with receding hair compare himself to a heartthrob celeb. Now don't get me wrong I did find him attractive... just no comparison lol. Then you get to know him, and he has the world's WORST self esteem like.....!? Maybe it's a fake you till you make it thing.
“Why am I the one in therapy…” when our culture is toxic and narcissistic tendencies is what works in getting ahead in the USA? Therapy works on the individual so it helps some people cope. But I won’t go because I’ve met too many therapists that refuse to acknowledge that as individuals we are not responsible for societal/structural realities.