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This is already very obvious and it's what we complain about with men but I just thought to rant about it here. One of the many things I don't understand about men is how they always want consistently opposing behaviour in a woman.
What are some behaviours that I am referrring to? Here are some:
+ Men want us to be virgins but somehow, have lots of sexual experience
+ They want us to never rely on them financially for fear that we are gold diggers yet if we don't rely on them financially for anything, they complain that we are too independent. They want us to work and not be stay-at-home mothers who eat up their money but yet, again, they feel unwanted because women who work don't have to necessarily rely on them for anything, including money.
+ They want us to accept their mistreatment of us (e.g. cheating on us, lying to us, hitting us) yet if we do, they look down on us for being stupid enough to accept their mistreatment and they resent us for it
+ They want the woman with small boobs then resent her for not having double Ds
+ They want a highly intelligent woman but then, they feel intimidated by her intelligence
+ They claim that they want loving relationships that last but yet they find every way to annoy and harass their partners, so much so that these women take off, leaving these men to wonder where the relationship went wrong. What's an example of this? I'll give you one: men who do nothing around the house. They don't clean and instead make messes all over the place. Their wives complain repeatedly and the men say that the women are nagging them. The wives get fed up and leave and the man is shocked when he's served divorce papers because he "didn't know she was unhappy" 🙄 Men like these are the ones who fail their wives at every turn then get surprised when she asks for a divorce.
Men want us to be two completely different things at all times and yet, no matter the type of woman they get, they want something else. We see it all the time - most men want a Victoria's Secret model that's swimming in money and is as smart as Einstein yet if they're lucky enough to get such a woman and marry her, they'll then cheat on her with a woman that's well beneath his wife in every way because their wife intimidates them and makes them feel "less than".
The double-mindedness that men have is why they are so miserable. They perpetually lack contentment and are always looking for more. Last time I checked, just as you can't be in two places at once, you can't have two different personalities in a woman. Men need to know that they can pick the woman that has self-respect or the pickme that has none. One woman can't embody both personalities.
This way of behaving is applicable to most men which explains why having relationships with them is just impossible.
Ooh ooh, I wanna play, I wanna play!!
+ They want a totally smart and ambitious girl boss uwu but then state that they find it very unattractive and the woman is deemed unmarriageable if she has a master's degree or higher.
+ They ask the women during the date what they bring to the table, but when, come to find out that the woman has her own life put together with her own house, her own car, a 6-digit salary, a thriving career, family and friends that love her, travels and has a banging body that she works hard at with the gym, etc, he cuts her off and logics it out with a simple, "She wouldn't need me and I want a woman who needs me. 😭"
+ They tell women that have been traumatized by men to "choose and pick better men", yet start malding and foaming at the mouth when we do as they say and start to elevate our standards and become more choosier for our next partner.
+ "I want a natural woman. uwu" yet all of their pornographic magazines, IG accounts of other women that they stalk, and websites they frequent are loaded with women with a shit ton of makeup on + plastic surgery that looks anything but natural.
They're illogical and irrational.
Conclusion: Males want women to be their sex slaves. They want power. Punching bags. They can't stand to see women in power or even 1 drop of us being slightly better than them. Let them complain, let them seethe, cope, cry. One day (hopefully) they'll wake tf up and realize they created those problems they blamed us for.
It's just excuses and rationalizations to treat women however men want to. Men want women to be responsible for men's behaviours.
All the men I dated:
”I want to trick you into becoming the breadwinner so I can mooch off of you while doing nothing at home all day, but I’m insecure and also want you to never leave the house and have no social life so you can’t make enough money to be the breadwinner. I also want to baby trap you so you can never leave me, but am too dumb to realize babies means you can’t work at all.”
One of the requirements for dating me now is having a vasectomy and proving it was effective by showing me your lab results.
Once you realize men lie the most to themselves and about themselves, you also realize you’re not to blame for all their confusing bullsh*t. There’s no satisfying them. They don’t know what they want because so many men only think in the present and what they want in the moment only. Knowing they’re full of it means you’re free to not give a sh*t about what they want or what their opinions are.
It's like my grandma always said: "Spoiled children are never happy."
Men are the spoiled children of society.
I agree wholeheartedly. My ex wanted a woman with a decent job but also wanted her to be available at all times. She can’t be depressed but she also isn’t allowed to have friends in case they want to have sex with her. Make it make sense.
They want to be needed, but also want us to mother them.
They also wanna justify their depravity with "it's biological" but when we call out such depravity they scream "nOt All mEN"
They want us to be modern, sexually free, and desired by others but then they also wish we were housewife mcbangmaids hidden away tied to the kitchen sink.
It’s the X chromosome deficiency. I’m joking but not really lol