I was just responding to a post and decided this should be a separate post. I think we forget how many men are pick-mes for other men. As many women are pick-mes For men, men are pick-mes for each other. Why do men think it’s cool to not care about women and bed a bunch of women? Who are they trying to impress? Other men. They care sooooooo much what their whittle fwends think. God forbid they go without sex for any period of time they immediately feel small next to their “cool friends” they pick-me for. I honestly look at men all the time and just think they are such pathetic losers. There is usually one ultra depraved man that all the other males try to gain the approval of by trying to match the depravity. Get. A. Life. I would like a good mature partner but it’s not hard to avoid men who are depraved because they actually are pathetic to me. An adult who does nothing but post on Instagram and try to get sex to gain the approval from his fwends is just such a weak little worm. I will openly scorn the ring leaders in groups all the time and usually the man becomes verbally abusive and all the other men just sit there blankly watching their hero be abusive to a woman and do nothing. Bleh most need a brain and a backbone. its so refreshing when you see a man who Doesn’t need the approval of anyone else and has depth to him it’s just rare.
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I have always been saying that men are the biggest fucking SIMPS for other men...they fear being looked at as simps for women that they end up simping hard for other men instead...and it's nothing new, scrotes are known to be homosocial/homoerotic AF...everything they do is to impress OTHER men...they wanna sleep with as much women so that they would earn bro points and validation from their male peers..they want that hot sports car to flex to other men thus earn the respect & acknowledgment of other men, which is gay af if you ask me...sometimes I feel that "straight" men are more gay than actual gay men because of their shitty homosocial behavior.
Agreed. Men need men's approval as much, if not more than women do. Most of them are brosexual.
The homiesexual bros are the worst! I've seen so many men literally bend over backwards to get other men's approval. It's always the same men who lowkey hate women too. They mill around, literally kissing the ass of whoever they unanimously nominate as the 'alpha male'. This guy is always the jerkiest, scrotiest man ever and they all aspire to be like him. They'll do his work for him, buy him things, sing his praises to anyone who'll listen and hang off his every word. They're so obsessed with seeing women as objects and pleasing other men, it's pathetic.
At some point I realized that men who objectify women in the hopes of gaining approval from other men are actually desperately trying to convince anyone that will listen that they are not impotent. Men’s self worth is so tied to their penises that they are terrified of anyone finding out they are broken in that specific way, so they overcompensate by trying to prove how aroused they are by women. I think this starts during adolescence, when boys are developing at different rates and the ones who feel like they’re falling behind are eager to prove to the other boys that their penises are fully functioning. It’s all shame based overcompensating. Then when they get older (or abuse their bodies long enough) and they lose the ability to maintain an erection naturally, the immense shame makes them continue to desperately try to convince other men that they are not impotent, and therefore less of a man. It’s so pathetic that now whenever I see it, I feel really embarrassed for these losers who are outright telling everyone they have broken, malfunctioning dicks.
I think it’s porn and media anecdotally this is what I see as the original culprit. The cool guy is always the guy who has lots of sex with many girls and objectifies them. So masculinity in culture and definitely in porn is all about an animalistic sexuality without attachment. then there’s the problematic idea that is out there that men are built to spread their seed and women are meant to be monogamous. So from a young age a man is someone who just cares about sex, who’s life revolves around sex and makes no emotional attachments. We have to take issue at every turn with objectification in media. To uphold men and women who both will sing about worth For women being about their sex appeal, and mens value being about his bedding women is promoting this stuff. however the first obvious thing that needs to go to porn. Porn is the epitome of racism, sexism and objectification and says it’s okay for women to be exploited by men. It’s somehow okay to punch and spit on a woman if you pay her. why do we allow abuse and racism to be legal if someone pays for it? It makes no sense to allow abuse for money.
It’s especially obvious during football season when they scream and make orgasm noises while watching men run around in tight pants, tackling each other.
I always equated that whole “bros before hoes” attitude to high school behavior, and any grown man who walked around talking like that definitely has issues but it’s even worse than all that. I saw a post here a while, back talking about man on the down low someone pointed out that that is a red flag for down low men and I can’t see it any other way now. If I ever ever hear a man talking about “bros before hoes” in any kind of way I plan to give him a knowing nod while I say “oh the DL?”
THIS IS SO TRUE