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A man is a consumer, and if he gives you anything he's got a plan on how he's going to set you up to get it back ten fold. That's what my friends husband did to her. Before the wedding he gave her $20,000 to pay off her credit cards, and then after the wedding he turned right around and made her take out a $35,000 loan in her name and give him the money. Then pressured her into taking out another $100k loan under her name against her will, plus interest, claiming he was broke, and it turned out he was secretly wealthy all along and had a $300k inheritance from his mother he was hiding from her the whooooole time. That money was just sitting there in the bank while he blew through her loan money. On top of that he was making $135 thousand a year, when he told her he was only making $55 thousand. And he also had half of his rich lawyer ex-wife's 401k which he got in his previous divorce.
He may have been getting ready to kill my friend, that way he would get the house and the land that she inherited and all that loan money he wouldn't have to pay back because it was taken out under her name. If I hadn't caught onto it and warned her she may be dead, I was dreaming of him rolling her body up in a carpet. And after I told her my dream and suspicions she admitted all he did was sit around reading murder mystery novels about how to commit the perfect crime.
If a man approaches you, at all, it means you're under attack by that man. And he might approach you with romance at first. Just like andrew tate. Because you catch more flies with honey then you will with vinegar. But he's still a spider trying to catch a fly. As princilla said to her one of her callers, "You are under attack, he doesn't love you and he only got with you so he could use you. You are not in a relationship, you are not in a partnership, you are under attack."
When a man romances you, it's just exactly like the study of those insects, male water striders, where the researchers disabled their rape arms. These bugs had developed specialized rape arms where they could grasp and hold down the females in order to rape them. So the researchers disabled their rape arms to see what these bugs would do. And when they could not use their rape arms, that's when these male bugs, started approaching the females with food gifts. And then when the females got close enough that's when they would rape them.
And it's exactly the same situation with men. When a man is giving you food gifts, and bringing you flowers and offerings and talking sweet to you and writing you love letters, that is the male insect who has not got close enough to you yet to grab you. And the proof of this is men only romance women before they have her in their grasp. Once they have you in their grasp that's when all the romance stops. And that's really all you need to know about the nature of a male. andrew tate really isn't doing anything that all other men aren't doing just perhaps in a lesser form. The romance was never real, the love was never real. What you were dealing with was a man who had disabled rape arms. He needed to lure you in close enough so that he could attack you. You're under attack. And the proof of that, is that when he finally got close enough to you that he can grasp you, he dropped all pretense of love and romance. It's all about trying to get you close enough that he can grasp you. So that he can use you. And rape you of resources.
And if all he wants to do is use you for sex and move on, honey consider yourself lucky. That means that you got a dumb one. And he hasn't figured it out yet all the other stuff that he can use and manipulate women for. If he were one of the smarter ones, then he would be using you for continuous sexual service, and also housekeeping service, laundry, cooking, & childcare, or other add on's like doing endless farm labor, or getting him citizenship, or putting him through college, while he's also taking out large loans against your credit, and getting you to pay 50/50 while you're doing all that shit, if not paying all his bills because he refuses to work, then cleaning all the money out of the joint bank accounts when the relationship falls apart because you finally caught on this guy's a swindler and you're a chump. But he knows it's going to take you years before you catch on to this fact. And in the meantime, he'll make hay while the sun is shining. Then he will go find another sucker and do it all over again. A man can easily burn through three or more different women in a lifetime using this marriage scheme. Because all women want is their big day where they got to wear a pretty white dress, and he knows that.
The redpillers are honestly stupid that they just want to pump-and-dump. They don't realize what a scam marriage is for women.
Men are takers (by nature or nurture, I don't know and I don't care). Very, very few of them actually want to offer anything to women, they only offer to other men (in exchange for status and money). They expect women to serve them, that is the "natural order" in their minds. Women need to stop looking to men for love, uplifting support and empathy. They are mostly unable and unwilling to give it, or only very conditionally.
I couldn’t agree more with all of this. Is it frightening to think that men are so callous, predatory and cold-hearted? Yes, very, but that’s the nature of most of them.
I agree; Andrew Tate is just speaking what most men think out loud but we shouldn’t be deceived. Most men think and behave like him. He just made a platform out of his degeneracy.
Men truly approach women with something in mind. They hardly come with good intentions that involve wanting a genuine relationship with the woman. If a man is approaching you, he has something he wants. Sex, a place to stay, attention, to live in your home, you name it.
Lastly, men’s greed knows no bounds. Imagine being wealthy and still scamming your wife so you can get everything she has. Men are so vile! I’m so glad that you warned your friend about the bad vibe you were getting from him and she confessed to him already planning what you dreamt about. I hope she got away from him.
As women, we must remember that our number one predator is men. It is essential that we vet them because our lives depend on it and while it’s true that there’s only so much vetting we can do and a man may still have some things hidden away, we must build ourselves up so that if we were to ever discover a side to him that we didn’t know of, we can walk away.
Men take so much from us. We want to love and be loved, and they take advantage of that natural human need for bonding and intimacy. I've been weeding men out of my life lately. Even male "friends" or acquaintances are useless. When I look back on my life, it's sad to note that I have never had a positive and caring relationship with a man besides my father who is no longer alive unfortunately. My grandfather ignored me. My uncles didn't care about me. Boys at school wanted nothing to do with me. Men have offered me nothing. I know I got lucky. I haven't been sexually violated or drained of all my money and resources. They just didn't give a shit about me or notice my existence. I guess I should be glad about that, considering the terrible damage they do to so many women without a second thought.
True.
Men are leeches in every sense of the word. They also leech from women emotionally too and expect them to be their free therapist
It's insane that he was so scheming. You both were lucky to be tapped into your intuition about his ulterior motives.
I agree with the 'if a man approaches you, you are under attack' bit tbh.
Especially random approaches without social context.
Even a man in love will harm the woman he loves.
A man who approaches you who is not even in love with you and doesn't know or value you as a friend...
Yeah, he wants something and there is littlte to nothing in it for you.
This reminds me of the "random Guy from Atlanta" lady.
I understand your post but I hate when people use the term rape outside of its violent, criminal context. I do not like rape being used as a metaphor. It’s a horrible, disgusting violation of a person, usually women and children.
very well said! i wish all women knew this. we waste so much time and energy searching for a good man only t be traumatized again and again. ans we think "oh that one is a bad erson. i'm sure the next will be a good guy." - joke's on us. even if he seems to be HV, we'll have to vet him forever. i'd rather be alone wihout the stress of spending so much energy vetting my partner. i want someone i can trust. if i need to vet forever, that means i don't trust him. and i don't trust men because of eveything that's been said in this post and many others, because of all of my experiences and the experiences of women i know. al around the world, we share the same kind of bad experiences, we camplian about the same problems. male scrotery is so consistent.
A man once offered me money to help me finish the renovations on my house (I am always renovating a house, its kind of my thing) but this one had fallen very short of the budget. I thought that was quite cool and said I could remortgage and get it right back to him after the work, but he didn't want that. He wanted the loan attached to the house so that he'd get a share of my house back. Hell no. A clean loan at bank rates until it's paid, I'm in... but a share of my home... I'm out. As someone once said to me on here, "all they have is the audacity".
I just want one female friend who isn't stupid.
Women clinging to these men like they're a life raft when really he's the millstone around their neck.
If you're in H-town and you're not male-centered, not out there chasing dick, message me.
i've learned today abput a woman who got HIV from her cheating husband. when she found out, she decided to divorce him. they have a teen daughter who's about to turn 18. the woman wanted the scrote to pay child support, but the refused.
apparently, he is the one who raised the girl because her mom had to work a lot and spent too much time out, so she couldn't be a SAHM. so he was kinda like a SAHDad. After the divorce, he showed very clearly that he loved his other family better (yes he and the mistress had another daughter). the teenage girl obviousl got hurt by that, so she decided to go live with her mom.
scrote dad got angry at her and now rejects her even more. he changed the locks of the house and now she can't even grab her stuff. her clothes, her personal things, it's all locked in her dad's house. he won't let her in. he is a narcisist (like a real, true narcisist) who enjoys playing the victim and ruining other people's lives. this man has to die horribly. i'm 100% sure he infected his ex-wife with HIV on purpose. he is a piece of shit.
the poor girl suffers from anxiety and feels guilty and rejected because of him.
sisters, please stay safe!
Pfft, girl, men will just rape you.
I agree with all the points you made.
What is the FDS-approved solution?