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Going to try to make this as succinct as possible, but I got shit on my mind y'all.
Rant, question, tactics, and general temperature check time.
Rant: The scrotes are putting it in their profiles now that they are looking for women to pay bills and mortgages.
Oh yeah. They bold with it. Variations I've seen include: looking for someone to split these heating bills with hahahahaha 🙄, looking for someone to get a mortgage with, looking for someone to split rent with.
In a normal and sane world, profiles like these would be a joke, but you know they are deadass with it.
Question: Are they . f***ing crazy or b. out their rabbit ass minds?
Discuss.
Tactics: *probably won't help but has netted me a good story so far* I've put in my profile that I'm not looking for any goldiggers.
Oh yeah. You thought that word was gendered huh? Nah it's YALL men who goldigging these days. So, checkmate, bitch!
I've toned it down slightly to mention that I want a successful man, or at least an ambitious one. It won't make a difference because these mofos don't read.
Vibe check: have you seen this or anything similar or am I the only one? What other forms is it taking so I can be on guard?
Bonus story: I successfully caused a scrote to unmatch within the first few messages by calling him a goldigger.
His first question to me was what kind of work I do. Note: I have a very detailed profile with my job title and other info on it. Like I said, they don't read.
So I responded: I don't work.
He then probed and said how do you live if you don't work?
I said, that's a very personal question.
He said yes, it is but I want an answer :)
I said, I don't like goldiggers and if that's what you are, I'm not interested.
He responded that it was the first time he'd ever been called that, and was I interested in a one night stand.
Oh be still my heart, what a prince!
He got left on read of course, and when I returned to the app, he had disappeared, self-flushed like the little turd he was. By the way, his profile had no info on it or bio, and when I asked him what he did, he said doctor/entrepreneur.
And yet, they shit themselves when we ask them to pay for a date. I wonder if you could say “looking for someone on my level”, and if a gold-digging scrote asks what your level is, say “if you have to ask, you’re not on it.”
They're hoping to seem relatable, hoping some woman will read that and say "yes, I need someone to split bills with, too!"
Possibly even hoping a woman with money will say "you poor dear, let sugarmama take care of you!"
Yeah, no thanks, I don't want to have to wonder whether he wants me, or I'm just convenient to have around for bill paying purposes.
This is one of those "I'm glad they're putting that on their profiles so I can dismiss them immediately" kind of things 😂
Omg so this is why one emboldened scrote mentioned how he'd be paying off his mortgage until his 50s and would 'have to work until his 50s' to me while on a so called date (of course it was a drinks date pre FDS). Wow..just wow. Maybe that was part of his tactic since he'd mentioned he'd been raped and bunch of other sympathy garnering information like how he was poor and living paycheck to paycheck etc. 🤔 Maybe he was just a sociopathic golddigger trying to use me financially since he knew I have a good career and job and he doesn't? He also triangulated a lot and pointed out another woman in the crowd etc and brought up poly lmao! I'm sure all those poly women would gladly help him pay off his mortgage with their crap jobs since no self respecting professional career woman would even look his way 😂 Evil sociopathic or narcissistic men seem to be doing this on apps then. Maybe its part of some new trend with these bums..
"Go into debt with me."
LOL, honestly, I appreciate when they wave those red flags immediately so I can save time.
What makes me angry is that women live under stereotype threat daily and are terrified of being called gold diggers, while men get to do this stuff freely. I feel the same about the post of the man who brought his daughter to a date
…and so true that they don’t read.
Men can and will lie about their finances. Many are in serious debt. Be very careful.
I find the gifs in your post really distracting and I can’t read it because of the movement. Can you put the text in a comment without the gifs or something?