They don't really want sex, then. Or they like to whine and harass for a five minutes of next to nothing but not help out and have a meaningful connection.
Oh honey, they understand. They CHOOSE not to give a fuck. This is why we vet the hell out of them and don’t give them the privilege of our company if they fall short of our standards. They can choose to be scrotes all they like, we are in control of ourselves so we can choose to next the fuck out of them.
Those who don't understand are just shooting themselves in the foot, so I say: let them. I always thought I had low libido but it turns out my body is actually amazing at filtering out LVM (if only I had listened to it more often...). If I like him and am attracted to him but somehow can't picture myself actually having sex with him, it's because my subconscious knows he is trash. All men who seemed great but I "mysteriously" didn't want to sleep with turned out to be selfish assholes, including my ex-boyfriend of 9 years who started to nag me for sex because I rarely wanted it (with him). By contrast, I could jump my now bf's bones anytime, because he is loving, caring, gentle and attentive. Of course you can be crazy horny for some kind of bad boy for a while, but it wears off quickly (and even then, in the back of our minds we already know that the sex might not be as great as we imagine it to be). At least for me, my libido is definitely wired to only be all the way "on" for men who are emotionally safe and respectful.
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Unknown member
Jan 15, 2023
No wonder I found it hot when my SO and I visited his parents' house for the first time and he ended up sweeping the leaves off of the roof and doing other yard work for them!
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Unknown member
Apr 10, 2023
I would be horny for him if he just treated me like a normal person..
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They do understand it.
Oh honey, they understand. They CHOOSE not to give a fuck. This is why we vet the hell out of them and don’t give them the privilege of our company if they fall short of our standards. They can choose to be scrotes all they like, we are in control of ourselves so we can choose to next the fuck out of them.
Those who don't understand are just shooting themselves in the foot, so I say: let them. I always thought I had low libido but it turns out my body is actually amazing at filtering out LVM (if only I had listened to it more often...). If I like him and am attracted to him but somehow can't picture myself actually having sex with him, it's because my subconscious knows he is trash. All men who seemed great but I "mysteriously" didn't want to sleep with turned out to be selfish assholes, including my ex-boyfriend of 9 years who started to nag me for sex because I rarely wanted it (with him). By contrast, I could jump my now bf's bones anytime, because he is loving, caring, gentle and attentive. Of course you can be crazy horny for some kind of bad boy for a while, but it wears off quickly (and even then, in the back of our minds we already know that the sex might not be as great as we imagine it to be). At least for me, my libido is definitely wired to only be all the way "on" for men who are emotionally safe and respectful.
No wonder I found it hot when my SO and I visited his parents' house for the first time and he ended up sweeping the leaves off of the roof and doing other yard work for them!
I would be horny for him if he just treated me like a normal person..