There's a lot of talk about "Chads" and women punching above their weight in looks/status, which basically leads to guys leading them on & ghosting, situationships, and other LVM male scrote behaviors. At face value it might appear to make sense, at least to degenerate redpill males who go on about it constantly. The thing is, I have seen nice, beautiful and submissive good girls (the exact kind they claim to want) go through this as well, so I do not believe the quality of the woman in question has anything to do with this rampant and ongoing sh*tty behavior. What I do know, however, is that most males are addicted to porn, and are attached to the dating apps if they can get any matches. Not necessarily good looking guys, or guys with good jobs, but mid guys who can get a few matches annually because they're not completely repulsive. Not HVMs. "Power corrupts, and ultimate power corrupts absolutely" and easy access to women has corrupted nearly all men. My theory is that because guys are so addicted to porn and entitled, almost all of them will waste your time/act like a scrote if they think they can get virtually any matches on a dating app, even if it's with desperate pickmes (they actually love pickmes). Some might even commit, but they'lll still cheat. Or spring poly on you later. At this point I think meeting a guy on an app is pretty much a waste.
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What is so baffling to me is that a lot of dudes seem hardly interested in keeping a conversation going. I am bewildered. I thought they hardly get matches online and that real women are scarce. And then when they talk they don’t necessarily propose a meeting. As if they don’t really care for meeting up. What’s happening? Who are these losers and what are they getting out of it?
And they'll always get matches. It's the job of some people at these app companies to have fake accounts to engage with the men who get no real matches in order to keep them on the app.
Something I think many women on OLD overlook:
If he met you on OLD, one of the ultimate tests of his commitment is whether or not he deletes his OLD apps WITHOUT you asking, telling, hinting, or otherwise prompting him.
He may promise you the moon and stars, he might proclaim everlasting love, he might tell all his friends and family about you, he might even propose to you and marry you--but if he doesn't delete all his OLD apps proactively, it means he always has one foot out the door.
This might seem like stupidly obvious advice, but you'd be amazed at how many women in “committed” relationships with men conveniently forget that these men are actively scoping out other women.