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When they say the bar is in hell I just scoff. What bar? Any standard is too much for the modern male, and it’s probably the reason why they want robot wives.
I was asked what my standards were when I keep on rejecting neighboring Scrotes because they are so nice. (The XY creature who is into me was thrown out of the house at New Year’s Eve by his mother for making her house and yard dirty and that only confirms that having high standards should never be discouraged)
I only said that his job is to make my life easier. That’s it. He’s not going to sit on his ass behind the ps5 and have my labor doubled. I sweep you mop, you cook I do the dishes. You prepare the meals I cook them. You do the laundry I iron, you fold.
You mow the lawn I water and maintain the plants. You do the repairs I do errants outside the house.
You clean up after yourself and I expect a daily shower, deodorant use and brushing teeth two times a day, That’s how it’s going to be and it’s nonnegotiable.
I don’t care if you pay all the bills.
It’s either a partnership or I’ll be on a salary from your paycheck. I’m not submitting myself to free labor so that a demure man child can be happy.
If men have a problem with that then they can move back in with their mothers.
I was told I’m extremely difficult by both men and women.
If being difficult prevents me from being a baby mama.
If being difficult prevents being taken advantage of, premature aging, feeling stuck then so be it.
You are either the wind in my wings to fly higher or you can go away.
My life is a mansion, respect and competence is the rent.
Yeah I've learned from experience not to discuss my standards with people outside of FDS. (Not unless I meet a woman in the wild who I suspect is FDS-aligned). The majority of people are LVM and pickmes and when they encounter a woman with standards, they will do everything they can to gaslight you into thinking you're being unreasonable or asking too much. They do this because womens' standards need to be driven down or else LVM would never get wives or girlfriends. These people are not on your side.
You are NOT difficult. I’d rather be single, than be an unpaid servant to a scrote. Women thrive being single, men on the other hand fall apart because they are parasites. Keep your standards high or stay single. Men aren’t worth shit.
You know who goes home with difficult women? Champions. Not guys who gave up after rounds 1 or 2. You're a grand prize, not a participation trophy.
Remain.
DIFFICULT.
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If a new relationship doesn't measurably improve the quality of your life (and not just his)... why even bother with it?
I seriously don't understand why people call "you either make my life so much better that it's worth the time and energy I invest in you or I don't need you around" high-maintenance or difficult? It seems basic common sense.
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Also, I went back to visit my friends group from college about a decade after we all graduated. One of them had had kids and we were all getting together to celebrate their second one.
Back when we were in school, we were all broke hippies, but when I came back to visit I was making real money. There was a really nice downtown salon there and I decided to book an appointment and treat myself. When I say these people had a complete heart attack because I went to get my hair done there, I mean it! I remember some girl who was new to the mix going on and on about why I didn't need to spend so much and I remember her mentioning that her friend cuts hair in a back alley or something, and that that's what I should have done.... lmao. Meanwhile, I'm sitting there with a gorgeous haircut, scalp massaged to the high heavens, and looking/feeling great watching everyone around me melt down over it. I remember the back alley girl had a really unkempt boyfriend and they had been living together for like 6 years. I learned a lot just from that episode alone. Back alley chick had zero standards for herself and basically the whole group didn't even want me to have any standards for my own self. I just remembered thinking, "Okay, stick to your back alley haircuts and keep shacking up with your dirty little troll man? Good for you. That is so 'cool' of you" and I didn't even know about FDS back then. It was crazy how mad treating myself to something made everybody.
So I decided to keep doing it and I haven't stopped since. Hahahha.
Do they think you should be... 'easy'?
I honestly think I'll just stay single lol.
Take it as a compliment :)