I love this matchmakers response to this question on Instagram.

The problem is men don't see women's time and desires as valuable. Oh, she really wants a kid and now it might be too late bc I wasted her time with my flip floping? Oh well, doesn't matter to me, says the scrote. But best believe, if he did finally come around to wanting a kid, and she had difficulty conceiving, it would be all HER fault. These men are so vile and pathetic.

Love to see more time-wasters get called out. Fuck these losers.

Men tend to just go with the flow in relationships. When I ask men why they had kids a lot of answers I get are "I don't know" or "My wife wanted it".