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I read this today and thought that this seemed like an FDS orgins story.
A reminder why we need FDS, why vetting is necessary, and how we likely have to always keep vetting. Scrotes are pathological. I am glad this turned out well in that they now have each other for support. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/cheater-dating-love-friendship_n_62fbe055e4b077bb77a664ac?utm_campaign=share_email&ncid=other_email_o63gt2jcad4
I want female friends like that.
Coz I'll never find a male companion like that. Good / nice guys don't exist. Just # not all men.
Unfortunately none of the women I know are strong and I'm tired of telling them they're conditioned to oppression. Break free. They never do. Life can't be played on loop. It ends. Male or female.
All men have is the audacity! I swear males will be married and have a whole ass secret second family (or three 😤) My uncle has 2 families. I also went on a few dates with a guy who did all the “right” things - and this his girlfriend of 3 years found me on WhatsApp. Another friend of a friend tried to cheat on his fiancé with me and my friend by pretending she didn’t exist (when their photos were all over social media). These males are serial liars and cheats and a waste of space.
whenever i read stories like these, i always get annoyed at scrotes who lash out at women for "gold-digging". bro, your fellow man uses his money to cheat on multiple women; asking for that same money to be spent on one isn't unreasonable.
Loved the camaraderie between them in spite of something terrible - sometimes when you've been hurt you really don't wanna be sunshine and rainbows and it is so refreshing for this woman to write about that hardening of the soul so eloquently. This was my favorite quote:
"How, she and I wondered to each other, do you keep coming back to who you were before you were pierced? How do you not become all fangs bared and claws out, even though you know if you meet the right person this way, you might miss it?"
So he was spending all week with one woman, and all weekend with another one. I’ll bet he was homeless, too
Beautiful writing. Even better outcome.❤️