Not sure if I selected the correct flair for this, but it *is* a scrote so 🤷♀️😅
This is a post I read yesterday from a group I'm in for autistic women. Unfortunately the OP left the group, for reasons unknown to me (perhaps didn't get the answers she wanted, although there *were* a couple of people suggesting couples therapy)
I know it's harder to just leave a man when you have a kid with them too, but this sort of thing makes me so sad. I read frequently on Mumsnet about cheating pornsick neglectful husbands (including one who got in debt over OF! 🤦♀️), and wish more women knew about FDS and it wasn't cast as this toxic man hating community 😔 It makes me sad OP wants to repair things with such a disrespectful scrotebag, when there are men out there who would worship the ground she walked on and not have the OF / porn (let's be real he probably watches both) issues her bf has. I said this but perhaps this isn't what she wanted to hear
The use of ‘they’ almost upsets me more than the nauseating content.
I'm all for growing together and "repairing" – in the sense of honest evaluation and re-synchronizing when you've hit a bump. But not this. This is not it. Telling her to dump him is not catty, it's the only thing that will protect her sanity.
If saying "dump him" is catty, then scratch my chin and call me Fluffy!
The societal gaslighting is real and strong. Otherwise women would love themselves and leave.
Idk why they expect random strangers on the internet to fix their LVM. It’s exhausting. Sorry your dog isn’t playing fetch anymore, get a new one maybe. And they know what the answer is they just have zero self esteem to leave.
What kind of advice does she want then?
Pathetic, how this woman has been brainwashed into thinking drawing a hard line at his behavior (by dumping him) is catty. The problem is the OP is going to redirect all her rage and sorrow onto her relationships with other women, who will ghost her and be left with nothing but this scrote in the long term.
I hope the woman gains the strength to leave the NVM.
“Tell me how to fix my problem except don’t give me the obvious, easiest, and ONLY solution.” I really do try to sympathize and be kind to other women, but I always get a new gray hair when I read a post like this.
Wait am I reading this correctly? Did she say he started his own only fans page without talking to her first? I'm a bit confused
This is a perfect example of a desperate insecure pickme in action. Look as she's running to other women to reassure her before she goes back for another round of the emotional abuse cycle with her scrote. She's pretty deep into the insecurity hole because she's labeling other women's comments as "catty" because she can't deal with reality. If she feels a bad feel then clearly you are bad! 😂