I F28 seriously feel like I'm never meeting an HVM and I'm about to stop dating once and for all, finding a partner has always been hard but I just hit a new low with this since I thought he was the one, he made everything seem like my fault but here are some of the things he did to me:
He drank a lot, (never alone), but whenever we went out, he would get wasted, and it really started to annoy me.
I felt like we were only meeting up to have sex (I mean, out of 7 days a week, it was 6 days of sex) and even told him that I was uncomfortable with this but he told me that "he loved fucking me"
I didn’t have time to do anything because my plans had to revolve around him and his plans and he hated my dog
He even criticized my appearance and what I wore (once I wore a tie, and he said I looked like a lesbian).
He said he was too lazy to go out with me because it was like having to learn everything all over again.
He got really mad when I tried to establish some limits when it came to a relationship
He was REALLY jealous (if I didn’t answer the phone, he thought it was because I was having sex with someone else).
I know that I also have my issues but this was just too much I know that he was a LVM but it still hurts and I'm done with all this.
Sorry, I just needed to vent.
Sometimes a man can be shitty but we still have a hard time with the break up.
It’s not your fault.
I think the best thing you can do is focus on other things. Find some new hobbies or get back into old ones.
Take a break from dating until you’re over this loser. Focus on yourself!
Also 28 isn’t old. You can find a hvm at any age.