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Today some old critter around his 50’s offered himself as a house spouse aka stay at home husband because I’m debt and Childfree.
His wife died 3 years ago of cancer. She was the one who worked and he stayed at home, but I’m not falling for the house husband thingy because men are unable to be high in quality like a devoted house wife. They don’t take care of the house, get groceries, fix your car, they don’t raise and nurture your children while you are working, have your lunch and dinner ready, they are just sitting at home with all the time of the world while mooching off you. But will get alimony when they divorce you and if he gets sick you’ll be with the medical bills and his washes up relatives will demand things that doesn’t even belong to him. I’m dodging scrote bullets left and right and I keep on wondering if there will ever be an end?
People act like I’m being harsh for rejecting older men but if these men have my best interest in mind then why won’t they share their wealth With their prey who has to put up with them? They wont do that because a woman’s kind nature needs to be accessible to them free of charge.
If you ever feel guilty for putting your own needs first, remember that men Will never feel guilty for making you hold onto the short end of the stick.
Old man wanting to be a house husband? He wants a nurse and a purse and isn't even trying to hide it. No respectable man would ever even think about sponging off a woman. If I'm going to be paying someone to maintain my home, I will also be paying him to leave after he finishes his chores. I will not be sharing my bed with the maintenance man or the landscaper, nor am I interested in letting some flabby old raisin writhe frantically on top of me for a few disappointing minutes for his own satisfaction whenever it strikes his demented, pornsick fancy.
Marriage should ALWAYS be a financial benefit to you, the wife. If he is not making my financial future significantly more secure, he has no place in my home. Hard pass.
I also remember briefly chatting with some unfortunate scrote online a good few years back, who claimed to be a psychologist, wanted to have two children and be a stay at home father while he does his PhD. I immediately checked my state‘s register for psychologists, and, of course, he wasn’t on it. Then I quite enjoyed playing the game asking him whether he found hard to get registered/ licensed, and he said it was a reasonably easy process (bullshit). I eventually backed him into the corner and told him he’s not on the register, after which he accused me of being a bitter person and blocked me 😆😆😆
You also have to ask yourself how his wife ended up developing cancer. Most cancers are very stress related, and I sadly have met several women who are no longer here, who have ultimately lost their lives because they put up with crap from husbands (and sons that were not far off) like that.