As soon as I get a whiff of woe-is-me I consider it a broken, no-value scrote. Block and delete. Men who have accomplished something in life and have genuine pride in themselves will never read you a poor-me riot act because it makes them look pathetic.
💯 Any man who displays self-pity energy and/or sob stories while you’re getting to know him is actually a major red flag for psychopathy (strange as that may sound). Think Ted Bundy wearing his arm in a fake sling to prey on women - lesser psychopaths definite run a similar con with their words on early dates.
This!!! Every single one of them I have ever known started with the woe is me deals. Me, being sympathetic to a tee fell for it. It’s definitely abnormal.
Why do so many men live like tramps? I don't understand it at all. It's the case even when they make more money than you, which for me is quite significant where I live. What is up with that?
I can say from experience that a LOT of guys who don't look like it at the first glance are technically homeless and looking for someone to stay with and mooch off with their sob stories. Remember to ask questions about his living situation in the early dating phase. They will not call it "homeless", of course.
They'll call it "staying with friends/family at the moment", "seeing the world", "not ready to settle down at one place yet", "enjoying my freedom", "living the van-life" etc.
I uncovered one of those shitheads once when he hit on me. He looked perfectly well groomed by the way and I never would have guessed that he was actually living in his car. I asked him if he was originally from the town we were in during some smalltalk and he answered that he was staying with friends here. So I asked if he was just here on a vacation because I wasn't interested in being someone's holiday fling. He vowed that he lived in town permanently but was just living with friends for now. I asked a few more questions and there came the sob story about his evil, heartless ex who had broken up with him 18 months ago and kicked him out of the apartment when he couldn't find a job and that he was staying on friends' couches and living in his car in between. The dude was fucking homeless, unemployed and completely broke. The only reason he didn't look like it was him mooching off his friends.
As soon as I get a whiff of woe-is-me I consider it a broken, no-value scrote. Block and delete. Men who have accomplished something in life and have genuine pride in themselves will never read you a poor-me riot act because it makes them look pathetic.
Men are hobo sexual by nature. Why bother believing these losers if they can’t back it up with proof?
What happened to homeless shelters?
"Could only happen to me" and 10+ other women lol
I can say from experience that a LOT of guys who don't look like it at the first glance are technically homeless and looking for someone to stay with and mooch off with their sob stories. Remember to ask questions about his living situation in the early dating phase. They will not call it "homeless", of course.
They'll call it "staying with friends/family at the moment", "seeing the world", "not ready to settle down at one place yet", "enjoying my freedom", "living the van-life" etc.
I uncovered one of those shitheads once when he hit on me. He looked perfectly well groomed by the way and I never would have guessed that he was actually living in his car. I asked him if he was originally from the town we were in during some smalltalk and he answered that he was staying with friends here. So I asked if he was just here on a vacation because I wasn't interested in being someone's holiday fling. He vowed that he lived in town permanently but was just living with friends for now. I asked a few more questions and there came the sob story about his evil, heartless ex who had broken up with him 18 months ago and kicked him out of the apartment when he couldn't find a job and that he was staying on friends' couches and living in his car in between. The dude was fucking homeless, unemployed and completely broke. The only reason he didn't look like it was him mooching off his friends.