Grandiose delusions from an ugly man

Before I started to follow FDS, I used to read this sub for sex workers. Never been a sex worker, but I found that sub amusing.

A very common theme are men who think they should get a discount or do it for free because they're hot/their dick is big/the fuck is amazing/they made her come.

The girls inevitably think they're sloppy and unkempt, their dicks are on the smaller side, and they absolutely couldn't wait for him to finish because it was so boring.

So yeah, girls, always channel the confidence of a mediocre man.

If we could all have the unfounded confidence of the average scrote.

I once made the mistake of dating someone I was not attracted to, and they had the worst attitude of any of the men I dated. It's really not worth it dating an ugly scrote, even for mental stimulation, chances are, they are projecting their intelligence to be far greater than it actuality.

Studies have consistently found that men overestimate their abilities and performance, and women do the opposite. In one test, women consistently rated themselves on lower than men, even when they had the same average score. There's a Forbes article on this, and many others.

if women had the confidence of an average male, we would be invincible

Ladies - if you think you’re too fat, not pretty enough, etc., please just channel this man’s energy.

It's incredible the level of disgusting that will approach me. The delusion is real. I had two dudes approach me recently. One was literally homeless Mexican man, had two unleashed dogs running behind him, no teeth, morbidly obese, alcoholic, and had the nerve to ask me if I was single. Like HUH?? Just yesterday, another guy, this skinny scrawny very unattractive Asian guy who works at my local grocery store stocking shelves. But somehow he has the confidence of Brad Pitt had the nerve to approach me and starts loudly joking with me trying to forced team me! Trying to force intimacy by using my name over and over . (I gave him a fake name) but he was repeating my fake name over and over as if we were already buddies and knew each other so well.. then asking me what my ethnicity is, and saying things like, "Your husband should be here helping you with that heavy basket!" Trying to make me tell him in a slick way if I'm single or not. Like wtf is wrong with these dudes?!?! I'm not a super model but good grief! Homeless and toothless dudes and dudes who make minimum wage bagging groceries think they have a chance with me? I've got two degrees! I have 6 figure career. I'm extremely intelligent, I workout regularly, keep my health and looks up. Like Huh??!?!

Just a reminder that a high IQ absolutely does not make a man HV. It makes him even more likely to be able to manipulate and degrade you. Kindness, emotional intelligence, and generosity beat cleverness every time. While we'd expect a man to be at our intellectual level, that's never sufficient for him to be worthy of you.

Guys like him have these delusions because girls like us gave him a chance

i’m pretty sure at this point the Y-chromosome has achieved peak brokenness.

May we all aspire to have the audacity of men!

What makes men think you want to see that? A fat dude tried to do the same, he said can you help me find my camera on the phone and remove the flash? , like a fool I helped and when I opened the camera I saw a few pictures of him without clothing on and when I have him a disappointing look he apologized and it wasn't meant for me to see. He's an old overweight dude who liked me. But that alone pretty much destroyed his chances( if he had some. )

You either respect or stay away.

Pretty sure he's trying to get you to send him photos of yourself with clothing removed.

That's why he's sending you shirtless photos. And this is why the correct response to this shit is block and delete.

It's like "ha ha, how about no?" 😆

I had an experience. I actually always date someone that looks attractive to me. But one day I decided to give an unattractive guy a chance. I thought he might have a good character. Turns out he's not lol. He seem to think he's hot shit to the point it disgusted me. Meanwhile, my late lover was very handsome. He's also super smart. But he kind of underestimated himself. Idk why. Maybe he's just being humble. The comparison between two really blows my mind.

Well I am really into hairy slightly overweight (but physically strong) men, so I might find him handsome. Your type is not every woman's type. However, unsolicited shirtless pictures are highly innapropriate and would grant an instant block regardless of his looks.

Just because men berate and scrutinize our bodies non stop, does not mean that we should go down to their level. Being HVW should include HV manners.

I find shirtless pics from men (unless they're silly ones or something) undeniably cringe, even if they are hot. Something about self-objectifying like a woman despite growing up with the privilege of a man strikes me as just embarrassing for them. It's so much more attractive when they're genuinely hot but don't make a big deal out of it at all - like being hot is just old news to them.

Gah I feel your pain. Been in that position many times, since I am someone who can be sexually attracted to someone with a "dad bod" (the real kind, not obese lol) if their personality stimulates me. The delusion is real though. Luckily every picture of himself my boyfriend has sent me is (1) clothed and (2) comes with dog tax.

Someone needs to tell him. Maybe he won’t believe you but it needs to be said.

I really think shirtless pics are a huge nope regardless of body type. They want pictures of you back; that’s always why they do this.