I was out walking my dog in the neighbourhood (I live in a pretty busy neighbourhood with lots of stores, restaurants and such so there are always lots of people around there who don't necessarily live in that area.
I walked past this mid-thirties looking scrote (I am 24 btw), who didn't really look that dirty/rugged/homeless/innebriated on drugs or alcohol etc., just a regular looking dude (but he was wearing a backpack around his chest). He stopped me and said "Excuse me mam, I have no where to sleep tonight. What should I do?".
The pre-FDS me would have probably felt super bad for him and tried to look up shelters and such on my phone to make sure he would be okay.
But now, all I said was "Sorry to hear that", and then continued walking away.
I am genuinely offended that this scrote even 1% thinks that I would ever give a fuck about his quandary. Wtf did he expect ME to say/do? "AWWWWW POOR BABY!!! Want to come to my house and sleep in my bed with me tonight??"
Thank you FDS for teaching me (of many, many things) that the problems of men (let alone RANDOS), are NOT mine to give a fuck about. Men know better than to ever ask a woman for help, EVER, and the one's that do are up to no good/attempting to use women's deeply socialized/ingrained empathy and kindness for THEIR benefit, and thus should be ignored entirely and GUILT-FREE.
I don't even feel bad for homeless men in general anymore as 99.99% of men who are homeless are because of their own shitty choices. I only give food/money to homeless women, because on the contrary- most homless women are in that state because of a man (leaving an abuser etc.). There was an awesome podcast episode on this as well.
#NotLITERALLY 😭