Field report: Guy gives me the full court press then chokes

That's exactly it. I haven't dated in years, so I'm not stressed about it. I'm glad for the chance to apply my knowledge and count the red flags. In my pick me days I would have acted sooo differently. Now? They can perish

I find the term pick me derogatory to women as it implies we are weak. Women are not weak. However, there is a difference between a woman attention seeking with flirting or any emotionally abusive trait and a woman being shamed and blamed for wanting company or equal reciprocal feelings that she was lied to about from a man or even a woman just not knowing how manipulation works because let's face it, one day of puberty talk in school does not cover emotional intelligence skills for relationships. A woman who is emotionally abusive and manipulative is a women hater, same as a man in my view. If there are men out there that don't deserve our wrath of a woman scorned, they need to speak the bloody hell up coz they all behave the same otherwise to me, and I only treat people with respect when they give it to me, consistently.

They LOVE me, but I'm not interested. I've been in enough age gap relationships and am not doing it again

I do enjoy flipping the script on them after all these years of being a pick me. I called him an "old fucker" to his face and bullied him outright. It was amazing pay back for years of being treated like shit, and I really enjoyed testing my FDS radar. Now I know he's full of shit cuz he couldn't even pull the trigger. Just like the last rich guy who wanted my contact info. Impotent. The whole lot of them

I see guys telling other guys how to mistreat women, they say string her along, never marry a woman, never have kids, and if you do demand a paternity test if they have to pay maintenance as a last resort. There's worse but I'm not going to give them ideas, they've too many bad ones to add to the list already. So what you're doing stringing men out is payback/ karma and it's tame in comparison with what they do and say/ think about us. Bring it on, karma's a btch for a reason. Accountability sucks for irresponsible dishonest life wasters so by all means ladies, waste theirs.

Hahaha yeah fair enough, if you enjoyed it then that’s all that matters. Scrotes always play women, why not have a little fun 😈

Yup to all those flags. They're all like this. I left his ass on read and by now he realizes he won't be chased by me. This fool should have been crawling over broken glass to take me out. I don't do tepid.

He looked at your website for over 30 mins? Did he even use your website as a conversation starter (texting)?

Nope! He messaged me through it, but that was it. His convo was so stale, I was laughing my ass off. No way was I gonna jump to carry it. F that

Right?! A half hour and he couldn’t come up with a creative conversation starter?