Experiences of giving men chance who I rejected in past were horrible !

Lmao this is so true (it's not funny that women go through this horrific behavior mind you - just laughing at the absurdity of it).

Don't give a man you've been rejecting a chance. He knows you are out of his league and by the time you do he will neg you to try to take you down to his level because he knows he's not good enough. And just like this post said, the resentment is there and now he can lash out.

Apart from giving a chance to a scrote that never had one before, don't give second chances either. Giving second chances also makes scrotes "punish" you. They then think they can do whatever they want to you by that time even if they were the ones begging and pleading on their knees for forgiveness.

If a man disappears for even a bit and then comes back, never take him back either.

Never allow for a "break" - just break up. And do not stay friends with low value scrotes, ever. None of the people I've mentioned truly care about your rights/needs, they just want continued access to you for free and low effort. A lot of these men just want power and control over women they desire and can't have.