I'm sorry but he is a nonce. Keep an eye on his history and shit to make sure he's not watching cp. No normal man would respond that he's attracted to 15 yo bc he liked one when he was 15, that's a lie. Run.
No good reason a man his age (or even older than 18 tbh) EVER needs to be thinking about relationships and sex with girls who just got out of middle school. I would break up with any man who admitted he was attracted to children personally 😬
OP, did you get an immediate feeling of discomfort when he first told you this? That jolt/twinge/dismay was your mind telling you something was seriously wrong with this man as a partner. Listen to it and leave.
As others have said he's not 15 anymore, he's almost a decade older than that. He's testing the water with her saying he likes 15 year-olds dump and run
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May 01, 2022
I look at 18 year old boys and think “scrawny kid”. Girls under 18 look like girls to me. They haven’t got full woman bodies yet. Paedo alert 🚨
Exactly! I’ve never felt any kind of romantic desire towards any boys that are younger than 18. How on earth can they say that they’re attracted to someone so young and baby? It makes me sick. 🤮
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May 01, 2022
Recognizing a boundary is so important. And it's hard when you like someone and they violate your boundary.
Break up with him, block, and delete without any explanation. Do NOT tell him why you’re leaving. If you feel you must provide an excuse for safety reasons, just tell him “We’ve been growing apart for a while, and I just feel like it’s time to move on.”If you explain to him that you’re uncomfortable with pedophilia, he will learn to hide it better in the future.
Yeah I’d be disturbed too. He absolutely can help it, he can refuse to indulge his sexual fantasies of girls.
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May 01, 2022
See, now that he’s said it, you can’t unhear it. I wouldn’t be able to look at him the same. Every time a cute teen passes by I’d be wondering what he’s thinking. Even if he’d never act on it, it’s a weird thing to know abt your bf.
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May 01, 2022
“I told him how I feel about it” and he totally cares and listens to your logic and totally won’t look up barely legal porn when you’re not in the room.
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I was attracted to the 7 yr old boy in my grade 1 class, doesn’t mean I am still attracted to 7 year olds
Acts like a pedo, is called out for being a pedo, has fee-fee hurt by being called a pedo 🤦🏼♀️😳
In my country 15 is the legal age of consent. Meaning that a 55 year old can have sex with a 15 year old and it being fully legal.
Throw the whole man away 🗑
I'm sorry but he is a nonce. Keep an eye on his history and shit to make sure he's not watching cp. No normal man would respond that he's attracted to 15 yo bc he liked one when he was 15, that's a lie. Run.
No good reason a man his age (or even older than 18 tbh) EVER needs to be thinking about relationships and sex with girls who just got out of middle school. I would break up with any man who admitted he was attracted to children personally 😬
Damn, I'd be scared of this man and never talk to him again.
OP, did you get an immediate feeling of discomfort when he first told you this? That jolt/twinge/dismay was your mind telling you something was seriously wrong with this man as a partner. Listen to it and leave.
As others have said he's not 15 anymore, he's almost a decade older than that. He's testing the water with her saying he likes 15 year-olds dump and run
I look at 18 year old boys and think “scrawny kid”. Girls under 18 look like girls to me. They haven’t got full woman bodies yet. Paedo alert 🚨
Recognizing a boundary is so important. And it's hard when you like someone and they violate your boundary.
Break up with him, block, and delete without any explanation. Do NOT tell him why you’re leaving. If you feel you must provide an excuse for safety reasons, just tell him “We’ve been growing apart for a while, and I just feel like it’s time to move on.” If you explain to him that you’re uncomfortable with pedophilia, he will learn to hide it better in the future.
Girl nooooo. You need to RUN. Normal dudes are not attracted to teens.
Keep this reddit screenshot low value sh*tposting out of the forum. This isn't strategy, the OP will never see your post, and it's not productive
The scarier thing is that for every guy who openly admits this, there's probably 10 closeted pedos who don't. 😬
What do you mean you don't know what to do? Leave. What the hell. This post feels sus.
Yeah I’d be disturbed too. He absolutely can help it, he can refuse to indulge his sexual fantasies of girls.
See, now that he’s said it, you can’t unhear it. I wouldn’t be able to look at him the same. Every time a cute teen passes by I’d be wondering what he’s thinking. Even if he’d never act on it, it’s a weird thing to know abt your bf.
“I told him how I feel about it” and he totally cares and listens to your logic and totally won’t look up barely legal porn when you’re not in the room.
I hope she runs. She’s dating a future pedophile.