Dumb popular reddit post

Because a gay dude would never put up with the terrible low effort, no orgasm treatment women get from their sex partners. You don't think a man would go back to a sex partner who left him with no orgasm and a generally disappointed feeling?

But most women do, so straight men never see the need to do a better job because they get sex anyway.

I think another factor is that gay men and their sex partners are (more or less) physical equals unlike (most) straight men and their female partners. You are less likely to try any violent or depraved stuff without warning if the other person is capable of beating the shit out of you for it.

Gay men aren't women and are biological men so they don't operate in same way,

-they are the same physical strength as their partner

-they can't get pregnant

-they don't experience misogyny

-gay men are likely less selfish in bed than straight men due to misogyny. A man rather please another man than a woman.

-straight men view women's bodies as disgusting, thays why they expect extra hygiene and grooming from women than they do, expect body hair removed, are disgusted by periods, women aren't allowed to burp or fart and have to hide it because womens bodies are more disgusting apparently. Men do not view other men's bodies as disgusting.

-gay men are more accepting of their partners bodies than straight men are of women and the unrealistic body standards they put on us.

-womens bodies are more vulnerable to damage from unwanted sex and we are more shut off sexually naturally as reproduction is potentially fatal for us.

-gay men are more likely to reciprocate and give oral than a straight man would to a woman.

-gay men are likely less selfish than straight men.

-there's less of a power disparity between 2 gay men and a woman and a man.

-once again misogyny, women are raised that our sexual pleasure isn't important only the man's and sex should be on his terms and at his convenience not ours.

-straight men rarely do oral, so women we don't even get a chance at a orgasm.

-men orgasm from all penetrative sex including anal and oral whereas women don't orgasm from penetrative sex, men also have prostate in their asses so receiving causes them a orgasm.

-the way we are raised is different women are raised with sexual shame.

-men are raised to view women as below them and not worthy of sexual pleasure as much as them whereas gay men respect eachother and its more equal

-gay men are equal whereas a woman and a man one is the oppressor

-once again our biology is different we have a womb and are more vulnerable we also have different hormones and naturally a different sex drive and desire than men. Sex without a emotional connection with someone that cares about us genuinely is more pleasurable whereas gay men don't care. Also women we need to feel safe, comfortable, relaxed to truly enjoy sex.

Males are selfish by nature. They will always put themselves first.

This gained traction because most men are secretly gay and only care about other men.

They’re just trying to make themselves feel better about being terrible at intimacy. Always the woman’s fault.

Hell men even leave simply because they want a new female each time or they want better and better.

Even when they get a orgasm and more sexual effort where the woman gives them oral and they didn't even reciprocate many times men will move on after. Especially if the womaj doesnt look like a pornstar or insta model. They don't even need to not have a orgasm to move on.

Men always believe they deserve better so once they've had you they keep looking. They even get their orgasm and feel satisfied and their ego boosted and then will ghost the woman and move on simply because they want something new or better. Men are shallow and ungrateful, unappreciative. It's just their male audacity and entitlement. It's never enough. They need more, better. They are never ever truly satisfied that's why they all cheat too.

Gay men know men's bodies better than we do, so theyre better at blow jobs, and I don't care. Men can be the blow job kings. I will never compete with a man to give a better blow job. Whatever.

I care about how much effort straight men put into sex with women. They think we're just gonna put up with their low effort, but women are increasingly choosing relationships with other women!

Gay men might have better sex than straight couples, but so do lesbians!

I hate how he said "its not a men problem" instead of "it's not a man problem".

I have only twice had an orgasm by a man. I mean, it's entertaining to watch them enjoy you, but mannnn.

Well then, what's he waiting for? No one is stopping him from being with a gay man.