I don't even want to imagine how bad his underwear must be for her to fear that it could "contaminate" her clothes by washing them together, because it implies that she thinks even a lot of laundry detergent and hot water won't be enough to ensure proper hygiene. I really don't 🤢. Why on earth did she even put up with this for so long and didn't run away screaming the second she smelled that dude?
"Washes his ass and doesn't leave skid marks in his underwear" isn't even the bare minimum. That's way, way below the bare minimum. An adult who doesn't manage this belongs in a care home because he is obviously unfit to live unsupervised.
I love how his edit is that he is going to apologize to her. No apology can remedy any of that write up.
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Feb 11, 2023
So, he's a crusty underpants goblin, and she is accepting living with this filthy Pig-Pen of a man AND doing his laundry?? Oh my, no. No. No. Nononono.
She needs to kick him out, bleach the inside of her washing machine, cleanse her sheets with fire, and have an energetic space cleaning to rid her of any lingering skidmark demons still hanging about. A good solid dose of penicillin probably wouldn't hurt, either. FOUL!
The comments are killing meee. He has poop stains and doesn't wash his hands. His girlfriend requires their "foreplay" to be her scrubbing him down so he's clean enough to not give her a UTI.
And his solution isn't washing his ass and hands better!! It's shaving and asking a doctor if he has a condition! And he's saying scrotes in his DMs sympathize with him so its not that bad 😭😂
To our sisters in this forum who want kids: please, for the sake of women around the world, if you have a son, don't do things for him. Make him responsible for laundry and other chores. There are enough useless men in the world already.
Dear God. Reading this gave me flashbacks of begging my ex scrote to brush his teeth before bed and also to wash his hands. My first bf left dirty dishes in the sink for 3-4 months. His whole house smelled like garbage. He never took out the trash. Of course he wasn't like this when we first started dating. He only showed his true colours 6 months into the relationship. Everyday I'm grateful to be single and scrote-free.
Proof that it isn't ADHD or executive dysfunction. They know how to do better when they want to impress you. They stop because they're lazy and they believe they got you hooked.
It's so true. This had been the EXACT pattern with my two ex boyfriends. Honestly the first one had his house clean and vaccumed and beautiful and smelling amazing when we first started dating. He cooked me dinners and did the dishes. I didn't have to lift a finger. 6 months later he was living in filth. Had to beg second bf to wash his hands more often and brush his teeth at night when I got to know him.
In both cases effort immediately stopped when they had me hooked.
The first guy even mirrored my political beliefs and women's empowerment beliefs and then came out as having the opposite political beliefs later on and then I saw a group chat on his phone with his friends where they mocked a beautiful woman who went to MIT who had just become head of their department. They labeled her a a diversity hire. None of them went to a university as prestigious as MIT.
" Mummy Doesn't want to do my laundry, what's wrong with her?"
Like seriously how hard is it to put your clothing in the machine and press some buttons? If you don't know how the machine works grab a bowl with soapy water and wash your underwear as soon as you take them off for a shower. Don't let it reek for days in the washing bin until it's time for laundry you disgusting bastard.
I already feel gross by just reading that. This Is why I enjoy living alone.
I like your thinking! Banish him outside with a washing board, soap, and clothesline!
Oh, it is a Herculean effort according to him and other posts with the same issue where the girlfriend/wife appliance didn't do what it was supposed to! /s
The difference between men and women is that men decide to feign malicious incompetence when what they "expected" to be done doesn't turn out that way. The beauty of living alone and not answering to a guy is that I can decide the cleaning schedule, not kowtow to someone expecting me to pick of their "chore(s)", which, by the way, is such a demeaning concept in and of itself. This isn't like when I was six years old and was expected by my parents to complete my chores!
When I do get married, I expect that my spouse will already be able to cook and clean on their own, not rely on me for that.
Everyone, this is why FDS is steadfast against living with a guy you are dating. Playing House together only looks cute and endearing on the outside, but it is exactly that. Guys who pull a woman into "It's been [how long they have been dating] and now it's time to live together", DO NOT RESPECT HER.
All they see is the benefit to themselves: Half of the bills are paid, a built-in (bang)maid, Mommy to themselves (or their kids), plus full access to you (and you can take that statement for its meaning). The list accumulates from there.
Set YOUR standards HIGH. A man will meet them, not little boys who only want to shack up.
The boyfriend in question is really pissing me off.
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Feb 12, 2023
You seriously need to stop posting these endless screenshots of scrotes from reddit.
You practically spam them this at this point and we do not need to be reminded of them and have them waste space in our minds everytime we log onto here
I see your point, however, for the benefit of this community, posting things like the screenshot is beneficial. It is one of the many shining examples that the handbook has a dedicated section in regards to NOT living with a person you are dating. No woman invested in a future for herself should waste her time, youth, or hard earned money on a marriage trial run. Period.
The AITA sub is wrought with posts like this where the woman is a victim of deplorable living conditions, be it financial, emotional, and even environmental, set by this person they are dating. There would be no reason to post if it was going wonderfully. Instead, it is showing how a woman has to wrangle a guy into changing what is making her home life hell. Meanwhile, he has moved her into the category of "Nag".
The guy here is a Class A scumbag, literally and figuratively. Look at how long him and her have lived together: Four years. It is safe to say that these habits have been part of him since before they lived together. And now after four years, it has compounded, because let's call it like it is: He has been subjecting her to this level of filth for that long.
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I don't even want to imagine how bad his underwear must be for her to fear that it could "contaminate" her clothes by washing them together, because it implies that she thinks even a lot of laundry detergent and hot water won't be enough to ensure proper hygiene. I really don't 🤢. Why on earth did she even put up with this for so long and didn't run away screaming the second she smelled that dude?
"Washes his ass and doesn't leave skid marks in his underwear" isn't even the bare minimum. That's way, way below the bare minimum. An adult who doesn't manage this belongs in a care home because he is obviously unfit to live unsupervised.
So, he's a crusty underpants goblin, and she is accepting living with this filthy Pig-Pen of a man AND doing his laundry?? Oh my, no. No. No. Nononono.
She needs to kick him out, bleach the inside of her washing machine, cleanse her sheets with fire, and have an energetic space cleaning to rid her of any lingering skidmark demons still hanging about. A good solid dose of penicillin probably wouldn't hurt, either. FOUL!
The comments are killing meee. He has poop stains and doesn't wash his hands. His girlfriend requires their "foreplay" to be her scrubbing him down so he's clean enough to not give her a UTI.
And his solution isn't washing his ass and hands better!! It's shaving and asking a doctor if he has a condition! And he's saying scrotes in his DMs sympathize with him so its not that bad 😭😂
Hope his gf wakes up soon!
To our sisters in this forum who want kids: please, for the sake of women around the world, if you have a son, don't do things for him. Make him responsible for laundry and other chores. There are enough useless men in the world already.
“I lived with my mom before her who did my laundry and never said my boxers were dirty.” 💀💀💀
“My mom before her” kinda reads like he's admitting this girlfriend is the mom ::after:: his real mom. 🫣
What is that? Do some men Not wipe themselves Clean?
Dear God. Reading this gave me flashbacks of begging my ex scrote to brush his teeth before bed and also to wash his hands. My first bf left dirty dishes in the sink for 3-4 months. His whole house smelled like garbage. He never took out the trash. Of course he wasn't like this when we first started dating. He only showed his true colours 6 months into the relationship. Everyday I'm grateful to be single and scrote-free.
" Mummy Doesn't want to do my laundry, what's wrong with her?"
Like seriously how hard is it to put your clothing in the machine and press some buttons? If you don't know how the machine works grab a bowl with soapy water and wash your underwear as soon as you take them off for a shower. Don't let it reek for days in the washing bin until it's time for laundry you disgusting bastard.
I already feel gross by just reading that. This Is why I enjoy living alone.
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Everyone, this is why FDS is steadfast against living with a guy you are dating. Playing House together only looks cute and endearing on the outside, but it is exactly that. Guys who pull a woman into "It's been [how long they have been dating] and now it's time to live together", DO NOT RESPECT HER.
All they see is the benefit to themselves: Half of the bills are paid, a built-in (bang)maid, Mommy to themselves (or their kids), plus full access to you (and you can take that statement for its meaning). The list accumulates from there.
Set YOUR standards HIGH. A man will meet them, not little boys who only want to shack up.
The boyfriend in question is really pissing me off.
You seriously need to stop posting these endless screenshots of scrotes from reddit.
You practically spam them this at this point and we do not need to be reminded of them and have them waste space in our minds everytime we log onto here