“ Bet you ignored lots of guys who would have been great for you”

Its like a car salesmen taking u to a junkyard and being like....."YOUR OPTIONS R ENDLESS!!!!! PICK ANY CAR U WANT! THEYRE FREE!" But to trick the car out/ressurect it will take hundreds of thousands of dollars and in most cases beyond repair. But hey....u got options😀😀😀!

Regardless, dont throw in the towel kid🖤

let me rephrase it: Bet you ignored lots of guys you would have been great for

I saw a dude who can cook very well, and I was like " Wow I wish I could find a dude who can cook and loves doing it" I had one dude say that I should look at the men I "friendzoned" but I don't friendzone people, I'm not even bothered being friends with men,

As for the nice guys I ingore, One dude ogled me, and say hello getting in my space so that I can't walk forward grinning at me like he's the joker, doI need to say hello back to this creep? No, Another time dudes came into my personal space and wouldnt take no for an answer to exhange phone numbers, for my own safety I gave in and blocked him as soon as the whatsapp msg got in. I told anotoher dude to leave me alone because im having a day off from work and he claims he does volunteer work while on welfare.

One dude wanted to talk and I lied to him saying I'm 44 instead of my actual age hoping "The wall" age would make him leave, he didn't buy it but it was worth the try, he was talking about having kids with me.. hell no.. but according to the pickme's I should not ignore the so called nice guys..

As for the ugly man myth, I gave an unattractive man a chance and it only boosted his confidence to ask other women out. I was more like a trophy for him to show off to his mother that he can finally have a babe, his mother even said she wished she could swap places with me because I'm such a good looking girl.. Never again will In fall for the trap that ugly men are better, they might act humble and sweet but as soon as they got you they will become just as ugly from the inside.

In general the ugly dude has the highest expectations, they would never date a woman just as ugly as them.

I dated all of them (cause Ain'T nO GolD DiGgER and StrOnG WomAN) and they were all abusive. Nice guys are the worst.

I refuse to be with someone I'm not attracted to.

And I don't even really like tall or muscly. I actually physically prefer chubbier guys because I love cuddling and they are more comfy, and average height because I am short and don't want to strain my neck every time I want a kiss or something.

but the guys who are more in shape are the ones who have treated me better. Any guy who has an insecurity tends to treat women worse in my experience and in the experience of many women I have seen talk about this on the internet. Anything that makes them insecure, makes them think they have been "cheated" out of having as much sex as they think their more traditionally desired peers have, so they will punish the first woman who likes them with that. (Hint: they are thinking of traits that get them sex usually. Women usually don't want to just use a man for sex. Scrotes don't even talk the same language as women)

Just look at how bitter short men are. They blame all their problems on being short. Meanwhile many women say they dated a short guy and he treated her badly.

As usual, they only listen to other men when it comes to women's preferences and don't pay attention to what women say.

Many women don't want a guy who will be at the gym all day long and weighing his food and being eating-disordered and isn't any fun cause he can't break his 16-hour fast that he does every day, and who will make you feel bad for eating a slice of pizza. but men still say that's what we want.

Lmao when they mean great guys they mean the guys who are broke ugly slobs (that are going to treat you like shit anyways)

Most men are scrotes. So yes, FDS ladies do ignore most men.

First of all, those "average" guys wouldn't be single if they gave "average" women a chance, right?

And besides, what's wrong with ignoring average men in favor of tall, chiseled men anyway?

The funny part is they do the same thing and it’s just another form of projection. I saw a brave (trad type no less) female dating coach point this out on X a while back. She said something like “It’s not that 80% of women are going after the top 10% of men, it’s that YOU are only going after the women who can GET the top 10% of men.”

Average and below-average men are the ones who have unrealistic standards. They remain single, most of the time, because they are looking for an ideal — typically a woman who looks and acts exactly like another woman they are obsessed with, real or fictional. They spend so much of their time watching porn, IG models, and sometimes sexualized anime, that they have trained their brains to *only* be attracted to women who look like that.

Oh and I have to say - (adding onto what I said before) - how do we REALLY know if a guy is nice? Sure, they may PRESENT themselves that way to impress you, but the real self comes out about 6 months later. We DON'T KNOW for sure if a man is actually NICE. NO ONE KNOWS UNTIL IT IS TOO LATE SOMETIMES!

The guys I ignored were all younger than me without much of an education or careers.