When my (ex) husband thought he could guilt me into an open relationship, told all his friends in hopes they would set him up with women and instead found out all his friends would be lining up for me first .... It always backfires on them.
I'm sorry that happened to you 😔 Had one scrote suggest it on the third date! Can't believe that dusty had the audacity to bring that up on a date, how unsafe. Lmao needless to say I blocked and deleted immediately. Ran into him at his low wage job the other day and he looked big mad at me for ghosting him 😂😂
Most men are undiagnosed narcissists. Nobody's feelings or emotions exist but their own. They dish it but can't take it. They can do horrible things to their SO's and not feel an ounce of empathy or sympathy when they see their wife crying in pain. One of my biggest lessons from FDS is that most men have no empathy for women. We project our own empathy onto them and over communicate till we are blue in the face and over explain trying to get them to understand. Narcissists can't understand because they don't have empathy.
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I really do believe that inherent male narcissism exist - it's said that everyone has traits to some degree or another, but they're probably leaving out the fact that it's largely male thinking and behavior. If they're not the loud brash overt narcissistic man, you have the poor-pity-me covert narcissist who will suck you dry, which falls in line nicely with Redpill or Incels.
There is no such thing as ethical polyamory or ethical open relationships. When are these men going to learn? They all use reddit, surely they see similar posts? And yet, there's people like OP that must think they're built different or something.
Everyone who promotes polyamory are narcissists or sociopaths. They're predators with a personality disorder and demonic energy. I allow God to elevate me and give the spiritual discernment to see the demons operating in these evil men and quickly expose and discard them before they get a chance to even touch me.
LOL be careful, you say that anywhere near Reddit or Twitter and people will have a meltdown.
Interestingly, the defenders always say, "Polyamory can absolutely work if you do it right!" but then in the same breadth admit it's never worked for them.
My ex asked for an open relationship many times. I always refused. When our relationship was already at its end, I told him about another guy I met (my now bf) to gauge his reaction. Because he was so far up his own ass with the ethical non-monogamy crap he told me it was fine and I should go for it. When I did finalize the break up and started dating this new man, he was furious that I would "betray" him like that. He still whines that I left him for someone else. In a phone call with my mom he said that he had wanted to break up with me much earlier anyways, but two minutes later he said he would have given me another chance but I ruined it by starting to go out with someone else. He can't get his story straight. The fact is he is pissed that he was the dumpee and not the dumper like he would have wanted. He would have taken me back just to devastate me further, I'm 100% sure of it. Maybe he was actually planning to cheat on me / monkey branch and I ruined that plan. He also liked to accuse me of planning to take revenge on him, make his life hell etc., while he secretely moved his new gf/victim into our shared apartment and even tried to turn my parents against me. With men like this every word out of their mouths is 100% projection.
Men love the idea of an open relationship on THEIR end NOT yours. They really get off on the idea of having a long suffering wife at home paying all the bills and taking of the kids whilst crying alone over him being with another woman. When the wife shows him the power of p*ssy, even her "old" p*ssy that he's SO tired of and doesn't want anymore, he goes crazy! 🤣 Whenever a man suggests an open relationship, you know he's completely over you, has no respect, and doesn't appreciate you at all. So either divorce him immediately, or show him just how easy it is for a woman, even one he no longer wants, to get laid. Dress up like a million bucks, and saunter out the door for dates whilst he gets to stay home with the kids. Don't come home until you need to shower and change for work in the morning. 🤣 Men don't understand words. They only understand punishment.
"feeling super stressed", but is he the only one tho? Because he says he started to fuck around first and then his wife found someone too. Here are some lies of that asshole: "My wife means the world to me" Really? That's why he wanted to open the relationship and fuck around? and "being with the other woman makes me love my wife more" bullshit! He's just happy his wife allowed him to do this but he didn't expect his wife would find someone. And the last one: "I want to run to this other woman" I wonder why he can't divorce... hmm, will his "beloved" wife get "too much" if he does?
Notice how vague his language is - which is why I don't believe his story (except the part about how his wife's so much happier with the new dude).
He handles "the lion's share of taking care of the fam"? Oh really, how so? Is he really handling 90% of the childcare and housework? Most likely he's not, or he conveniently failed to mention his wife's in graduate school while working full-time.
If you're so exhausted and overwhelmed, you talk to your spouse and brainstorm solutions. The cure for exhaustion and "lack of intimacy" isn't fucking strange.
Yeah, the way to fix the stress and lack of intimacy in the relationship is to add more people to it.🤣 I feel badly for the girl he's f*cking. He's probably lying to her about how evil his wife is, or he's completely omitted his wife and children.
When my (ex) husband thought he could guilt me into an open relationship, told all his friends in hopes they would set him up with women and instead found out all his friends would be lining up for me first .... It always backfires on them.
“Oh no, the consequences of my actions.”
This is my absolute favorite genre of reddit posts 😂 every so often women on Reddit are allowed to point our male hypocrisy and whining...this is it
It's what he deserves. :)
Most men are undiagnosed narcissists. Nobody's feelings or emotions exist but their own. They dish it but can't take it. They can do horrible things to their SO's and not feel an ounce of empathy or sympathy when they see their wife crying in pain. One of my biggest lessons from FDS is that most men have no empathy for women. We project our own empathy onto them and over communicate till we are blue in the face and over explain trying to get them to understand. Narcissists can't understand because they don't have empathy.
There is no such thing as ethical polyamory or ethical open relationships. When are these men going to learn? They all use reddit, surely they see similar posts? And yet, there's people like OP that must think they're built different or something.
My ex asked for an open relationship many times. I always refused. When our relationship was already at its end, I told him about another guy I met (my now bf) to gauge his reaction. Because he was so far up his own ass with the ethical non-monogamy crap he told me it was fine and I should go for it. When I did finalize the break up and started dating this new man, he was furious that I would "betray" him like that. He still whines that I left him for someone else. In a phone call with my mom he said that he had wanted to break up with me much earlier anyways, but two minutes later he said he would have given me another chance but I ruined it by starting to go out with someone else. He can't get his story straight. The fact is he is pissed that he was the dumpee and not the dumper like he would have wanted. He would have taken me back just to devastate me further, I'm 100% sure of it. Maybe he was actually planning to cheat on me / monkey branch and I ruined that plan. He also liked to accuse me of planning to take revenge on him, make his life hell etc., while he secretely moved his new gf/victim into our shared apartment and even tried to turn my parents against me. With men like this every word out of their mouths is 100% projection.
bet you feel pretty fuckin' stupid right now don't you scrote?
I love when this happens!
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Men love the idea of an open relationship on THEIR end NOT yours. They really get off on the idea of having a long suffering wife at home paying all the bills and taking of the kids whilst crying alone over him being with another woman. When the wife shows him the power of p*ssy, even her "old" p*ssy that he's SO tired of and doesn't want anymore, he goes crazy! 🤣 Whenever a man suggests an open relationship, you know he's completely over you, has no respect, and doesn't appreciate you at all. So either divorce him immediately, or show him just how easy it is for a woman, even one he no longer wants, to get laid. Dress up like a million bucks, and saunter out the door for dates whilst he gets to stay home with the kids. Don't come home until you need to shower and change for work in the morning. 🤣 Men don't understand words. They only understand punishment.
I live for these posts.
Feels like some of these are satire