While scrolling through YouTube, I came across this scene from The Break-Up that perfectly encapsulates what we say about men.
If I were her, I'd be out of the relationship like yesterday:
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I remember one time talking to a boyfriend about this scene. Surprise surprise, he didn’t get it. The day I find a man who understands this scene and sees the guy as the villain is the day I get married 😂 (kidding, obviously. The bar is in hell.)
I went and saw this in the cinema when it came out and I remember it vividly. It was a very bleak and depressing movie (despite being dubbed a romantic comedy?!) because it depicted so accurately what goes on in most heterosexual relationships.
Him playing a video game at the beginning of this scene is just so spot-on, ugggh.
Women want a man who WANTS to put in the effort of being in a relationship with us.
That's what I wish the writers had verbalized in this scene
Also I just noticed how he STILLLLLL isn’t helping with the dishes during this argument.
She is able to talk and work.
He just stands there yelling, proving her point once more
There's nothing more disgusting than a grown man playing video games. He needs a 2nd job if he can concentrate that well after work.
Ladies, serious question….
Should we use this scene to vet?I feel this would save so much time….. and give us insight of the future…
How would we even word this? “what do you think of this scene?” … it’s kinda out of nowhere.
My ex husband who I left because he was stingy (thanks to an arranged marriage), not only washed the dishes, he cooked, he cleaned, he helped with laundry, he watched our son and took care of him, etc.
there is no excuse for any man not to contribute and if he doesn’t, he better be hiring a living maid or someone to help. Other than that, adios ✌️