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I mean ofc I don't wish anyone to be harassed (unless they're a rapist, pedo, or murderer). But I just can't take the trans plight seriously. The entire concept reeks of entitlement, delusion, narcissism, and the pure unadulterated scrotacity.
I saw someone complaining that they get misgendered because they "have a deep voice". At first I felt like I can relate as a woman who has a relatively deep voice myself.
But then they said they're trans. I couldn't help but laugh at that point. That's not misgendering because they ARE A MAN! They said this was over a gaming mic too. If a stranger can hear this guys Adams apple across the globe through a microphone, that is not misgendering.
That's someone making a judgement based on the information that is presented to them, and the facts they gathered is that the person they are speaking to also has a scrotum. The delusion, I just cannot for the life of me take it seriously..
Especially when they complain about "trans misogyny". Oh boo hoo, they go on to get the most outlandish cosmetic surgeries to look as much of a porn star possible OR they don't try at all. Misogyny comes with the territory, they can't transition and then expect to keep their male privilege. Its very rare I see a trans woman who transitions and then goes on about their life
(id say nikkie tutorials is the ONLY example I can call on who seems well rounded and is actually likeable. I don't even like Blaire white because she acts like a flamboyant stereotype and I've watched them compete with biological women)
Nearly everything they complain about is laughable. They think women talking about our issue excludes them (which of course it does. It SHOULD exclude them).
They cry when no one wants to date them but like I said they either go overboard and make themselves look like a blow up doll or they don't try at all. They cry transphobia when people don't want to date them, but they rarely date each other.
It's too much and it's too stupid. Oddly enough, I think more women would be empathetic to their plight if they didn't trample over people's boundaries all the time. Back then, I didn't mind calling people by their preferred pronouns.
I thought they were a bit nutty but who did it hurt to give in? Boy was I wrong, give them an inch and they don't even take a mile. They demand the entire length of the great wall of China and more.
What are your thoughts? Sometimes I feel like a jerk when I find out someone is trans and I want to distance myself. Because I know not all of them are this way but I feel like in order to be trans there has to be something gravely wrong that they aren't seeking the actual mental help they need for.
You're not and you shouldn't feel bad for your disgust towards them because they ruined this for themselves.
They are Biological men invading and colonizing our rights.
They are the reason why society call us degrading names, cis, birthing person, Uterus havers and have the word woman outlawed by calling us "non-men" Bodies with Vagina's, and egg producers and the frankenstein transvestites and their supporters are fine with it because it is inclusive language but are not calling men penis havers or seed poppers to make the trans men/non binary people feel better. They call women chest feeders or people who have the capacity to become pregnant but men just fathers, they want to eliminate mothers day but fathers day can stay.
3. They act like they can decide what a woman is while we are born as female, we endure puberty, pain in our breasts as they start to grow, periods and menopause later in life. Not them. So we are the gate keepers of womanhood.
4. They act like their delusion and their desire to feel like a woman is more important than your comfort of not wanting a 6 foot man coming out of woman only space.
5. They decide what rights we can or cannot have. And if our right include denying them access then you are either beat up/receive death threats/stalked or cancelled.
Why would you feel bad for a bunch of immoral beasts while they are trying so hard to erasa you? Trying hard to make you believe that you are not a real woman but they are.
They don't even respect you or care if you live or die as long as their delusion is put first.
They wouldn't deserve any hate if they have proven themselves that they come in peace and accept that trans women have different rights than real women.
They would advocate for trans women spaces, trans women Beauty Pageants, and sports and leave us the hell alone.
They would understand that women rights are inherited by biological females.
Also I got banned in subs and got a warning from reddit for saying only a man can be a trans woman not us, and only a man can de transition because we real women can't de transition into anthing because we are born as women. While men who jerk off to genocide for women or explain in detail what they would do to women who reject them never get banned.
These freakazoids are protected for meanie words that are actually biological facts while we should be protected from them.
When it comes to these beasts all I can say is that Delusion needs to be fed and coddled while reality does not. That's where I take my stand.
They are biological men who failed at being HVM. Being a woman for them is like when you apply to your backup college choice just so you have somewhere to go if you don't get into your first choice. A woman is not a failed man's alternative life path. Zero empathy for them.
Everytime you can't help but feel sympathy for these womanphobic colonists, take a stroll to this website https://terfisaslur.com/
It will slap you back to your senses.
No. You are not mean. You are echoing every tired woman’s feelings of suppressing their anger that their sacred spaces, both psychological and physical, are being erased and infiltrated by males in the most insidious way, through narcissism and gaslighting.
It is not female responsibility to coddle male egos and validate their fragile sense of self. Feminism (as in equity and liberation from male oppression for ALL women and girls) does not have to be inclusive as female oppression is not inclusive. They can have a third space. There is still way too much work to do for women and girls universally, they can step the fuck back in their lane.
I am tired of being “kind”. I am angry. I am angry that I was an ally of a movement that eventually sought to erase my personhood. I am angry my sisters are being raped and abused by delusional males and then compelled to use “inclusive” language, forced to coddle the ego of the suddenly trans perp, when they’re on the stand giving evidence of trauma they were forced to endure. I am angry my sisters in prison are being raped by males they are forced to be incarcerated with. I am angry my lesbian sisters are being told they are bigots for not wanting cock. I am angry those sisters are beaten, stalked, harassed, and raped.
I am angry for the little boys and girls being groomed by predators online and irl to play out sick fantasies in an effort to procure child abuse material to disseminate to fellow child rapists. I am angry these same abused boys and girls grow up confused about their sexuality for the very fucked up things they were put through, so they attempt to identify out of their sex as it is a self-protecting trauma response that their traumatised brain thinks they won’t get hurt again if they’re not the same sex.
I am angry for boys and girls who just want to play, having very adult themes applied to their behaviour when they behave outside of gender norms, when in reality, it is developmentally appropriate.
I am angry that children are being mutilated without any digging as to why they are presenting with such concerning mental health needs. I am angry that toxic gender stereotypes are being reinforced because a boy likes pink and a girl wants to ride a dirt bike.
I have nothing but compassion for truly dysphoric individuals who just want to exist quietly and alleviate distress by pretending they’re the opposite sex. The dysphoric individuals who don’t expect others to enable their delusion and know they are not entitled to entry into single-sex spaces.
I have nothing but anger left for the narcissists and sexual deviants who have found a new way to oppress women into submission. I can assure you that this movement's true colours are slowly but surely coming into light. We must stay strong and protect women and children from these delusional predators.
I have chosen to project my anger into outlets where I can actively work to protect women and children. I am a member of programs and activist groups fighting to protect women and girls' spaces. Our anger can be productive and powerful if channelled effectively. Don't fight your anger. Use it.
Nah you're good, they chose their path and every small problem is their personal excuse to never fix what's beneath the surface. They could've chosen to become a chemist or some shit but no they chose social clout over personal growth.
Anyone that threatens suicide as a means of controlling other people is highly manipulative and abusive.
This fact is well recognized in the mental health community, but for some reason it’s mostly only discussed openly in the context of domestic violence. They have yet to admit that transgender identified people threatening to kill themselves if you “misgender” them is just as abusive as your boyfriend threatening to kill himself if you dump him. Both people are using suicide as a means of controlling your speech and behavior.
I look forward to the day society recognizes suicide as a fundamental human right. That way, when an abuser attempts to manipulate you with his suicide, you can just say “Ok. You have a right to end your life on your own terms. I applaud you for exercising your human rights.” And walk away.
This may sound harsh, but I’ve worked with so many patients that are ACTUALLY suicidal, and the difference is that they feel a profound hopelessness and lack of self-worth, and an abuser simply feels entitlement and a desire to control others.
But the world isn’t ready for that conversation yet.
Have you seen the BBC article about transwomen bullying lesbians to date and have relations with them? It's disgusting. The audacity for men with male genitalia - in dresses - forcing women to who desire cis women only - to sleep with them. Horrific. This is the worst thing I've ever heard of, and as a straight cis women, we know how men are, and I believe it. When will women get a break from male harassment and abuse?! The fact of the matter is, if someone grew up and was conditioned as a male for at least 10 years, there's no way their brains become female overnight once they throw on a dress, some makeup and a wig. Their brains are still male brains!
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-57853385.amp
Would strongly recommend this article exposing the misogyny behind letting men Self ID as women
https://onthewomanquestion.com/2023/06/16/the-trans-ideology-movement-global-capitalism-and-the-colonisation-of-women/
I used to work at a clothing store in college ( like 15 years ago) and there was a mom and her three boys that would come in pretty regularly. Her youngest son maybe like four or five years old? would only want to wear little girls clothes. I remember once she picked out some boys swimming trunks for him with Hawaiian flowers but he didn't want them. He just liked the girls clothes for whatever reason. She would let him dress in girls clothes. I remember thinking "oh he must be trans". Back then being trans wasn't a known thing like it is now and I believe was still called gender identity disorder. Now looking back I realize he wasn't trans he was just a little boy that liked wearing little girl clothes. Maybe he just liked the colors or the designs more. I think about that little boy often and how he's now an adult and hope he's okay. I hope he wasn't bullied and was allowed to just be a boy that liked "girl things". It makes me sad because I know little boys that prefer "girl things" don't even have a chance now. They will automatically be labeled as trans and boxed into gender stereotypes. So I definitely feel empathy towards children dealing with these issues when the adults in their lives are pushing them into this direction. But a 40 yr old man that suddenly wants to wear thigh highs and mini skirts and call himself a "lesbian"? Yeah no. And that seems to be what makes up most TRAs. I think in twenty years we are going to look back at this as a society like we do the opioids crisis and be appalled doctors let this happen.
My only RL close experience with trans is the woman who left her husband to become a "man" in my circle of friends. "He" collects My Little Pony, spent over $1000 on a single dolls, but she's totally a guy!! Bitch is almost 40 too. Husband is devastated but she left the state to live with a trans woman "roommate". (Sure, Jan...). As my friend and I keep discovering more info and sharing notes, it becomes more obvious that she is both delusional and a vulnerable narcissist. The damage she causes just seems to increase as time goes by. She lies to her parents, lies to the husband with false hope, and now the husband's parents flew in from out of state to be with their son because her shenanigans caused him a serious health condition. And this delusional bitch (and frankly idiot husband) don't get a divorce. He is just a sad panda clinging to the past and she wants her cake and eat it too. She is lying to everyone, if she were serious about this trans nonsense, she'd face the consequences she's due for. But she won't. Lost a lot of respect for her and the whole movement.
My opinion is that you're not mean for feeling the way you do... but you need a place to vent about this, and this isn't the place to grind your axe
You know my opinion on this already, but save for places with no cameras like bathrooms, I believe that trans women should not be treated like men. If they're getting body parts chopped off because they feel that much like a woman, then they just aren't a man. Trans men are more like us than they are like men who identify as male, and I think that's important. They do need to stop calling us chestfeeders though, that's fucking stupid. I wouldn't say you're lacking empathy, so much as you're empathic but guarded because of the crossroads between political misogyny and trans acceptance. There's a no-win situation right at that crossing there, where there ARE trans women who actually hate women. It's just not a norm though.