I'm watching Botched and there is this 30-something woman with seriously botched breasts (Breast Lumps and Empty Noses, S05, E12). Her story is that she found a lump in one of her breasts at 19 and when she went in to get it removed, her boyfriend suggested getting implants. Then 2 days before the surgery, he also suggests a labiaplasty 😮🤬🤬
At this point, I'm like... I bet this asshole is like 35-years-old, manipulating with young, impressionable girl. Depraved asshole.
When the truth comes out, my jaw dropped!!! Her "boyfriend" pressuring her into these cosmetic surgeries was 52!!! Fifty-friggin-two!! 🤬
My spidey sense for bullshit was right on, but even I was not prepared for what the truth was.
The girl ended up having tons of complications and revision surgeries and still ended up severely botched and was now getting fixed by Dr Nassif and Dr Dubrow.
FDS women need to be seriously wary of age gap relationships and ANY relationship you are part of should improve your life, you should be directly benefitting. No exceptions.
This so much! I hate seeing the age gaps. There are almost always huge red flags when you see women asking for advice in an age gap relationship.
That is a horrible account. There is nothing wrong with cosmetic surgery but it should never be done to benefit anyone but yourself. Men won't like you more if you change your outer appearance. They already decided from day one how they feel about you.
I just finished listening to FDS's last podcast episode on age gap relationships... The "Roast a Scrote" story at the beginning was almost as horrifying as the one told in OP's Botched story. I cannot recommend it enough. At the end of the day, they are not targeting young women for their beauty, but the moldability - they groom them, tell them how things work, "oh, yeah, that's totally normal to request from a partner", "if you really loved me you'd do xyz" - that just doesn't work on 30+ women who have had a chance to develop a sense of self. And this is why I love FDS so much - finally there's one place that lets all the young women know their game so they don't get played. So they focus on career, friendships and vetting and are immune to all the geriatric scrotes.
Super late to the party, but EVERY time I see a woman posting about her relationship issues on /r/relationships the man is ALWAYS at least +5 years older than her.