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I came across these two videos of women putting up with all kinds of nonsense from men. This guy had put his wife through hell then decides that he doesn't want her anymore, including telling her that he feels that "he never loved her":
This guy is a total mess too and his wife has all sorts of issues and, as usual, makes excuses for him and wants to fix it:
This is just a reminder that women should leave broken, confused and deeply damaged men alone. They are like hurricanes and if you let them come into your life, they'll destroy everything in sight and then leave you to pick up the pieces. Imagine seeing a man through the chaos that he put you through - e.g. forgiving him cheating on you repeatedly, giving you an STD, having outside babies, etc, and then he tells you that he wants to leave and feels that he never loved you?! This is what I referred to in another post of mine, where I said that men can coexist with us, live with us, be with us and never truly care at all for us. How women put up with this is beyond me. You couldn't pay me a million dollars to put up with this chaos for even a month!
I could not possibly agree more. You cannot fix anyone. You’ll spin your wheels for years trying, they won’t do the work, and they’ll leave you in the end anyway frazzled and with loads of trauma. I know- it happened to me! Learned this lesson the extremely hard way, and I’ll NEVER do it again.
Oh my God. Imagine how frazzled and shot her nerves must be. Living in such high tension high anxiety state all the time. So horrible. The second one’s even more upsetting. And she still tries to save him! I hope she takes this great advice. He seems really empathetic, fair and level headed. She’s putting her boys at a huge disadvantage exposing them to this casual depravity. Yuck.