I have a neighbor who in the past I would have considered as having a crush on me. He has been BUSY in the past few years trying to win my affection (get me in the sack).
He brings my trash cans up (my driveway is on a massive hill).
He tries to weed-whack my property for free (I shut that down real quick).
He tries to engage me in conversations about his dead bedroom marriage (I shut that down even quicker).
He noticed one of my trees was dead and cut it down so it wouldn’t block my driveway.
I have told him time and time again that I don’t need his help, am not interested, and do not want to hear about his problems in his marriage.
The other day I ran into his wife, who seemed upset. She told me this man had been cheating on her with NINE women! NINE.
Where the eff does this man find the time? He’s practically made it a part-time job pursuing me, and it appears he’s doing this with at least 9 women (probably more, and those just happened to be the ones who took the bait). Well, I guess living off his wife’s income leaves him with time to spare.
His wife said she saw his texts to me, and thanked me for shooting him down. I told her it was my pleasure. Honestly, it was. This scrote is so skeevy. If I hadn’t had experience with how useless cops are in my area, I would have reported him.
I gave his wife info about ChumpLady and told her that cheating is abuse. I told her she deserved better and that I hope she will leave. But she seems to have drunk society’s Kool-Aid. She wants to go the marriage counseling route. IDK, maybe the 9 partners can be included?
FFS, what has our culture done to women?
My never ending question is how do they find the time. I don’t have the energy to date one man. If this isn’t proof that women make mens’ lives easier I don’t know what is.
I mean she should just dump him. But also I'd love to be a fly on the wall for the 11 person counseling session haha
Marriage counseling isn't going to change a males nature. And their nature is to spread their seed. Men are not capable of monogamy. When a man approaches me, I ask myself, "What is this man trying to use me for? What benefits is he trying to deplete from me?"
God I hope she drops him. He is literally monkey branching rather than job hunting. Disgusting peeg.
Uuuuuugh. I promised myself I wouldn't get into dating/relationship threads anymore, but this caught my attention and I have to say something.
I don't know if this scrote has a full time job or not, but even if he was working part time or does freelancing here and there, the fact that he still has the time and the energy to bounce around in 9 different women really helps solidify things for me. Namely, that men absolutely have the internal drive to get things done in impressive bursts of energy... and we as women should absolutely take advantage of that.
A man who can cheat like that around the clock has the time and energy to have multiple jobs and pay for everything between him and his wife, tbh. Why should we even pay a single cent on anything, if men can have the type of energy to work two or even three different jobs and side hustles or whatever the hell, and be the provider? Men will on God beg for a 50/50 type of relationship, just all so he can have the spare change to spend it on their mistresses. Or the men who bitch and cry about having to spend so much time with his gf or wife, when obviously this one moid can juggle between 9 different women with finesse. 🤡
Also, this is why I always get offended when some moid tries to "help" me in any way. Always had a weird feeling about it and now I know why thanks to this thread lmao. I know he's just doing it to get his dick wet, so no thanks.
I love this, Queen! Chumps supporting Chumps!!! 🥰
I had a similar experience with a neighbour who has a partner too! He gave me and my friend a lift once after a night out and once brought my bin to my driveway when I was already out there to go collect it (his girlfriend seen this and shouted at him lol). The scrote even had the audacity to go to McDonald’s with his girlfriends son whilst she was in the house and brought me so much McDonald’s (for my kids inc). I didn’t even ask for one. It was so awkward when the son helped him bring the food to my door. I actually felt disgusted! I no longer speak to him. I can’t believe how disrespectful and how upfront they can be especially when it’s right under their partners nose!
I was JUST about to recommend Chump Lady for her. Poor woman.
Good for you having her back. Her husband is disgusting and I hope his dick rots off.