A man got the "ick" because women are traumatized and he doesn't want to deal with it.

>I was reading a post where a man was complaining about not wanting to date women with trauma.

he'll be complaining about MaLe loNeLinEsS very soon, then. all women who have ever existed are traumatized. mostly by men.

because they want to be the first man to give that woman trauma, it's like a competition against all her exes

"Why do men feel like they get to dictate which woman has acceptable levels of trauma for her to be dateable?"

They can dictate all they want. They have no means of enforcement, so who cares about the blah blah words coming out of their mouths.

Women should have the ick when men still live with their mom, have no job, single papa's, skip showers, don't brush their teeth. But when I say it, It's called unfair.

I grew up I'm a very misogynistic and backwards household. I'm the youngest of 4 kids. And have 2 older brothers and a older sister.

Older sister left home at 15.

2 older brothers stayed.

I suffered extreme abuse at the hands of one of my brothers almost 8 years older than me. Verbal, physical, sexual abuse.

My parents allowed him to torment me my entire childhood.

Not only that. Only I was expected to do chores. Never was he despite being a adult male and me a child.

My parents also restricted me especially my mum who is a pickme. Though I love her. I was extremely sheltered and not allowed normal socialising or to have a life as a child and teenager. Despite already being abused at home by my older brother.

I saw the favouritism sons get. And had to deal with pick me grandmothers who worshipped my uncle/brother.

I was also taught very backwards and misogynistic things from my father, grandfather and brother.

I was raised to be a pickme with zero self respect and view men as better than me. It was also normalised to have many kids and have them young, start as a teenager so it wasn't shocking when I became a teenage mum. It was normalised in my family. And a tradition/curse of the family for that to happen at 17/18. Years old.

Some things I just cannot say on here. But I was raised with heavy misogyny and internal misogyny.

I've literally had hundreds of guys on dating apps over the last 15 years emotionally abusing me this way for previous traumas I had no control over happening to me. Last big trauma was losing eyesight in one eye and ex cheating while I was on operating table then dumping me after. I'm in so much emotional pain, I cannot and will never date again.

There no men on this planet healthy enough, physically or mentally, to have a healthy relationship or offspring. Women need to go on strike globally now. Spread the word.

They dont want to get to know and understand a woman beyond a surface level. He doesnt want her to express any emotions other than happy and horny. What makes a woman unique and cherished really isnt an interest of his. This is what makes it seem so easy for them to cheat, to move on right away after a breakup or divorce.

Hell, they can barely have any emotional intelligence of their own so how could they possibly accept a womans?

What did he mean by trauma? I'd assume a healthier man or woman will prefer a partner who hasn't been traumatised. Abusive and predatory types seek out traumatised women because they're easier to abuse. It's interesting hearing of a scrote who doesn't want that. Unless of course he simply means he doesn't want a woman with experience which is a completely different thing.