Queens, I've just stumbled upon a post on Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=686639532285422&set=a.127588648190516
A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them Sex, Some have even turned into Sex toys just to keep their man
Let me be very open here.......
Sex might not be the reason these guys walk away!
Remove sex from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their man!
Aside Sex,what do you have to offer to a man?
Can you support him Spiritually?
Can you Support him Physically/Financially?
How about Mentally?
All you do is Demand Moneyfor Bags, Shoes,phones, Clothes, and Outings,
Making him spend unnecessarily
What are you even bringing to the table???
Have you ever sat him down and helped him planabout his future???
Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life.
Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man!
Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for a ready made husband when you are not a ready made Wife...
Thank you"
Is this a form of LVM???
This reads as if it's a child repeating words he read online, and who has never spoken to a woman...
where is the vomit reaction? 🤮
This is why we need to be HVW on our own and level up so no one asks us stupid questions like "what do you bring to the table?".
When you're confident in your own self worth, it won't even occur to you to even consider if you bring enough to the table, all you care about now is if he is even worth giving attention to, much less bringing anything to the table.
Men who ask this question are just trying to devalue and neg the women in their lives. I think it's incredibly ironic how men place so much importance on women's sexuality and trying to get into bed with us and turn right around and use that to condemn us when they've succeeded in getting that out of us. As the handbook says "Generous men are non-negotiable". If he's complaining about a simple bag, how is he going to provide for you?
FDS has really opened my eyes so much to the treachery that is out there, a few months ago, I'd have considered that facebook post to be a valid critique of women, but now I see the LVM propaganda.
Thank you for posting this. Gotta stay alert