Half the replies are excusing him and telling her to accomodate and bend over backwards towards him. Its like we need to provide an education on healthly relationship dynamics in school or somewhere.
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Unknown member
Sep 10, 2023
Oh yet another naive young girl posting her complete misunderstanding of males. First red flag is that she's "so in love with him", 2 months in. 2nd red flag is that she honestly believes he "loves" her too, after just 2 months. He's pushing you off cause he's done using you. This is called, post-nut clarity. Males will say/do whatever they need to, to get laid. Once that sperm is released, they immediately crash back to reality. So NO he doesn't want to cuddle. Your job as a Fleshlight is done.
I replied with post nut clarity lol how what is happening is unhealthy. He could be getting the ick which means she is being used and just like don't settle for this as your normal & up your standards.She was so angry and defending him🤦♀️ I think sometimes there is no point replying.
Just DM her the FDS handbook sections pertaining to this. Don't bother commenting on preddit, where anything remotely like healthy boundaries and standards will be down voted to hell because it's the worst place on the internet for women to post.
yeah she is upset with the reality advice 😬 Not sure it would help after reading it all!
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Sep 10, 2023
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How something is said, is Important. Especially if your goal is to change someone's socially conditioned viewpoint. remember how it felt the first time a man exploited, lied, and humiliated you. She's allowed to be "really upset " it's alot to process. She just needs time
I was with a guy like this for a very short time when I was younger. He would basically jump out of bed the moment he finished and immediately shower and then just go on with his day. I tried to talk to him about it and he said that cuddling when you are all sweaty from sex was "gross" and he found just lying around afterwards boring and a waste of time. It made me feel so insecure because I obviously took it personally and thought he found me after sex and what we did "gross". I mean, I get wanting to quickly throw the condom away or something but you can come back to bed after that can't you? I'm not a drive-through where you throw your trash away after you are finished and leave. I tried to explain that I liked the intimacy of staying in bed together a little after sex and he basically told me that I should be content with foreplay and sex because that was enough intimacy and what more could I possibly want from him.
This is a sign that these men cant connect or that they are simpky too stupid to do it. Its not normal at all and just sounds like he cant have a deeper connection. I know guys like this and they are just not worth it. Its boring and meaningless at best and just straight up disrespectful at its worst.
I honestly don't know what it was in his case but your interpretation sounds plausible. I suspected some kind of repressed shame about sex itself as a "dirty" activity (his family was religious) or some kind of hygiene obsession back then or even him being secretly gay and grossed out by what we did because I was a woman (he never showed any other signs of being gay, though). But in the end it obviously doesn't matter.
yes yes exactly, he needs to get tf out because he cant handle either what he did or what it means.
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Sep 10, 2023
If a man is not immediately holding you after sex/did not get you ready beforehand, then he does not love you. Men have no problem being in entire marriages where they see the woman as a placeholder. It's the reason men aren't with their highschool sweethearts. Think about that. Men pump and dump in high school, get a college girlfriend or two to do all their homework for them, marry a starter wife, then marry a sexy wife, on and on until they can't. And THEN, when they can't, they prey on CHILDREN by acting like gentlemen. Women should be infuriated. :)
How a man treats you is how he feels about you. If he leaves the bed after sex and acts like he's been swimming in cyanide, it's because he doesn't like you and views you as a toilet. Pretty simple to see, but I guess it is hard for women to understand that men will literally fuck corpses, so you're not exactly dealing with someone who's capable of love.
She should realise he, like most other scrotes, only cares about sex, not her as a person. Once his "needs" were fulfilled she's just like air to him. She should totally talk to him about it and see how he responds.
Oh yet another naive young girl posting her complete misunderstanding of males. First red flag is that she's "so in love with him", 2 months in. 2nd red flag is that she honestly believes he "loves" her too, after just 2 months. He's pushing you off cause he's done using you. This is called, post-nut clarity. Males will say/do whatever they need to, to get laid. Once that sperm is released, they immediately crash back to reality. So NO he doesn't want to cuddle. Your job as a Fleshlight is done.
Just DM her the FDS handbook sections pertaining to this. Don't bother commenting on preddit, where anything remotely like healthy boundaries and standards will be down voted to hell because it's the worst place on the internet for women to post.
I was with a guy like this for a very short time when I was younger. He would basically jump out of bed the moment he finished and immediately shower and then just go on with his day. I tried to talk to him about it and he said that cuddling when you are all sweaty from sex was "gross" and he found just lying around afterwards boring and a waste of time. It made me feel so insecure because I obviously took it personally and thought he found me after sex and what we did "gross". I mean, I get wanting to quickly throw the condom away or something but you can come back to bed after that can't you? I'm not a drive-through where you throw your trash away after you are finished and leave. I tried to explain that I liked the intimacy of staying in bed together a little after sex and he basically told me that I should be content with foreplay and sex because that was enough intimacy and what more could I possibly want from him.
Yeah... it didn't last long.
If a man is not immediately holding you after sex/did not get you ready beforehand, then he does not love you. Men have no problem being in entire marriages where they see the woman as a placeholder. It's the reason men aren't with their highschool sweethearts. Think about that. Men pump and dump in high school, get a college girlfriend or two to do all their homework for them, marry a starter wife, then marry a sexy wife, on and on until they can't. And THEN, when they can't, they prey on CHILDREN by acting like gentlemen. Women should be infuriated. :)
How a man treats you is how he feels about you. If he leaves the bed after sex and acts like he's been swimming in cyanide, it's because he doesn't like you and views you as a toilet. Pretty simple to see, but I guess it is hard for women to understand that men will literally fuck corpses, so you're not exactly dealing with someone who's capable of love.
She should realise he, like most other scrotes, only cares about sex, not her as a person. Once his "needs" were fulfilled she's just like air to him. She should totally talk to him about it and see how he responds.
This poor girl... I wonder how long will it take for her to see him as he is. The conditioning is strong.
Yeah he's definitely using her
She needs to get out of there. She deserves so much better.
Oh yeah she's being used no question. That's so sad.
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