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Queens - I have joined the FB groups above that are associated with my province/nearby towns. They are so entertaining.
Those groups mention guys who show red flags, married, have multiple gfs, spreading STDs, abusive, liars, cheaters, etc. it's so entraining.
However, I noticed some queens on there who have the FDS mentality from their comments. Wondering if any of you are on there, because that's not only awesome but it makes me so happy 😉
A lot of pick mes though!! I feel bad for them. 😆 Whenever I'm stressed now, I go on there to laugh at the audacity of scrotes and as daily reminders why vetting is so extremely important.
Where I’m from (somewhere in America) these posts are pretty based and SO entertaining. There was a post about a guy I had matched with during my brief OLD… this guy had multiple accounts of domestic violence, beating women, mug shots…. You would NEVER know from his profile. Highly recommend joining these groups!
I live in a small Canadian town, I joined mine with a fake name and don’t comment, but definitely take in all the tea. It’s a very small town. Everyone knows everyone. There’s a lot of good comments but there’s also a bunch of posts saying the guy has been notified. There’s always a dudes “friend” or sister, or cousin or whoever. One lady who posted was assaulted by the guy after she made it. It can be dangerous. But it’s a major resource. I work in a restaurant and had a seemingly nice guy at my table, with his wife and son. Then I see his tinder picture in the group. Men ain’t shit. There was another post I seen, same deal, dudes pic is on tinder. Girl posts him, asking if anyone knows him. Dozens of comments “he has a girlfriend!” Then the GIRLFRIEND comments and says “I live with him, I know his phone password, I know for a fact he is not cheating on me. This is obviously a troll post.” You can’t help some people. Instead of TV now, I just grab a bowl of popcorn and read the group.
I'm in the New York groups....so many pick-me's on there.
I’m in a Canadian group for a major city too, it’s both sad and entertaining reading those posts. On occasion I’ll add my 2c but you can’t help those who won’t help themselves.
I was in it but decided that part of decentering myself from men was not using the drama as entertainment. Your mileage may vary.
Not Canada, but southern US. I see a lot of pick-meism but a surprising and refreshing amount of FDS type values there. I also notice that while I've been put in FB jail several times for pointing out red flags in a photo or the deets on a 'GIRL RUN' post, the 'are we dating the same guy?' groups are surprisingly FDS in their responses. I am no longer the only one commenting things like 'if he wanted to he would' or 'he's showing you who he truly is, believe him and leave' and it gives me hope.
After seeing this post I joined the equivalent in my city (in Australia) just so I could have sticky beak. I un-joined not long after. It was so awful, just full of pick me, tragic, desperate women who wonder why they’re being harassed by a man they let into their house on date 1. I can’t deal with that shit, it really depressed me seeing how little the women in my city value themselves. Every single photo the man looked like a dangerous criminal.
I wish they were somewhere else other than Facebook! I get it's for privacy/safety though.
what a valuable resource. grateful these exist!
The groups look more pickme than they actually are because harsh comments on men get deleted to avoid FB ban.
I’m in the Florida/miami one’s spreading FDS gospel.
Im not in that one but I’m in the one in Chicago.